290: The Power of the Group in Child Development – part2

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This blog post is in the context of
Day 289 | The Power of the Group in Child Development
Day 288 | The Power of the Group to Change the World
Day 287 | The Power of the Group – Setting Life Free
Day 286 | The Power of the Group – Enslaving or Setting Each-Other Free 
Day 285 | The Power of the Group – Self Forgiveness for All as One
Day 284 | The Power of the Group – What is Real POWER 
Day 283 | The Power of the Group – Humanity Destroys Earth
Day 282 | The Power of the Group – Life InFormation
Day 281 | The Power of the Group abused to Divide & Conquer
Day 280 | The Power of the Group – Life MisInFormed
Day 279 | The Power of the Group – Why is Life not ONE
Day 278 | Desteni: Mirrors of Support in the Journey to Life




Continuing from my previous blog post on the power of the group in child development, I’d like to share here a comment I participated with on a social network where the question was asked:

How do I get my child to trust me?

Obviously this is a point one can go in-depth with, and I’ve explored the point in various other blog posts in the past (see links at the bottom), but here I’d like to share the few points that I came up with in that moment:

Share YOURSELF - Show yourself. Share unconditionally, do not hide. Tell it like it is. Show the child/children What and How you learned in life, show that one is able to take responsibility, that one does not have to be the victim or powerless. Show that you have the practical common sense required to address any point and see it for what it is, and that anyone willing to is equally able to develop such practical common sense and a direct view at reality.

A crucial point within parenting in our world is the method of Reward and Punishment that constitutes any and all forms of parenting or child approach. This in itself polarizes the child and creates a controllable being that will in turn also learn to control others through manipulation.
Therefore, it is suggested to learn how to move beyond polarity and rather work with the Understanding of cause and effect, thus the Understanding of Consequence, which will produce a human being able to put two and two together and make informed decisions in life that are not dependent of 'reward' or 'punishment' – thus not dependent on the conditioned fears and desires one develops through ‘education’ in this world system – but are based in practical common sense and pertain to the actuality of reality.



On this subject, see also the following blog post by Bernard Poolman that provides amazing insight with regards to child development and parenting:
Natural Learning Ability of the Feral Child

My blog posts on Parenting:

Day 123 | Humanity has Relationship Problems - Parent Self Commitment

Day 122 | Humanity has Relationship Problems - Parenting Revisited

Day 109 | The Hand that Rocks the Cradle – Parenting begins with Ourselves

Day 107 | Parents Patent Patterns – Revisited

Day 106 | Parents Patent Patterns - What is the ConSequence ?

Day 105 | Fear and Desire and the Addiction to Energy | How Parents Love Human Nature

Day  66 | Puppets on Strings - The Automation of Consciousness as Energy

 

The new series on Parenting published @ eqafe:

Parenting - Perfecting the Human Race - Part 1
Parenting - Perfecting the Human Race - Part 2
Parenting - Perfecting the Human Race - Part 3





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That is the only way to change our world, our existence for real : Self-Real-ization.



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