Donnerstag, 30. April 2015

547 | F.E.A.R. – Fail Early And Responsibly - Part 2




Continuing from part 1:
Whatever the output from that question, what you’ll find that it’s just an emotional-reaction made-real into and as the living flesh, through acceptance and allowance, throughout time. It’s just a mind set lived into beingness. Yes, it takes a process to release it, you’ll have to forgive yourself, but the point is simplistic. The solution is that change/becoming comes from being – and therefore it is who and how I will BE in moments that will form and determine what will accumulate, what will flow out, what will be created. We create all the time. We either create in awareness, or we create through what we accept and allow. We either create as who we are as life, or we create as who we are as systems, based on fear/inferiority, or delusions of grandeur. Fascinating the power of emotions and feelings – because we give it to them.

A cool practical perspective that came through in a recent discussion and that is relevant here:
<<in relation to the deep emotional experiences - been there myself in the past, you have to PRACTICE the stability and the movement until it becomes you, the energy [experience] is going to keep on coming because that's been your instruction to the energy your whole life, so now you gotta practice in this new instruction of stability and movement - let that be your goal, when the energy overtakes, remember the goal of stability and start pushing yourself quicker out of the emotional possessions>>



I often had to remind myself that it's my mind making an elephant out of an ant, and so my job is to identify the ant and give it direction as myself.
Sometimes it was really like schizophrenia lol meaning that I sometimes had to wonder: how come I can be confident sometimes and not confident other times? And what I’d find was a moment of reaction or of a thought, which was ‘accepted’ and taken out of proportion and used/abused in the mind through my allowance to 'validate' self-definitions of failure or inferiority or ‘not good enough’ etc. Or I’d find a point of comparison where I was basically comparing apples and pears. I’d definitely find self-judgment.

So it’s in those/such moments (when I make a problem a problem by going into a reaction about it, instead of seeing direct and finding the solution/direction) where I see this preprogramming kicking in - and then I know okay it’s just my design, it’s my preprogramming trying to ‘follow its course’, but it is not what I want for me, for my life, and so I can handle accordingly. I had to (and still do) teach myself to ‘handle accordingly’ in moments, and it mostly entails slowing down, grounding myself and willing myself to see things for what they are, re-minding myself of my process and my self-commitment. Within this, I can embrace myself and take full responsibility for me – because it’s then simply about: what have I developed and can trust myself with, and what have I not yet developed; who/what I have created myself to be/live and what I have not yet created myself to be/live.

In my preprogrammed design I had conditioned myself into self judgment and self punishment, ending up in abyss-like states where I’d feel like the world was ending and like I was completely powerless and hopeless, a complete failure. High idealism and expectations obviously did not help on the way.
Again and again I found what was said many times in process - it's the SMALL moments that matter lol indeed the big moments are but the accumulation of smaller moments over time; and so I’m focusing on the ‘small’, on who I am in moments and how I relate and handle myself and my own mind.
And the ants no longer become elephants, or at least the elephant-bubble is more easily burst.

Clarity, consistency, perseverance – where there is a will there is a way. And so we walk.





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546 | F.E.A.R. – Fail Early And Responsibly







Recently I’ve come to look at the point of ‘failure’ again, realizing that it’s been quite an ingrained system of self-experience that I had embodied early in life, without real awareness about what it was that I was accepting and allowing.
What I discovered, is that based on ‘past failures’ we tend to project similar scenarios into the future, more often than not ending up manifesting the very things we wanted to avoid – a self fulfilling prophecy that is.

It only takes a simple shift within self in order to change this point from something that ‘haunts’ you to something you can learn from and utilize to grow and flourish.
The shift from accepting ‘failure’ and allowing it to define you, to truly investigating what it is you had defined as ‘failure’ and why, based on what? The shift from self-judgment and emotional-reaction (e.g. “omg I’m such a failure” or “I’m never going to make it” or “this just won’t work” or “I don’t think I’m good enough” or “I’m not good at…”) to the simple question: What is it that I hadn’t yet developed that I can still explore/discover/apply? And how did I create the ‘failure’ experience?

Whatever the output from that question, what you’ll find that it’s just an emotional-reaction made-real into and as the living flesh, through acceptance and allowance, throughout time. It’s just a mind set lived into beingness. Yes, it takes a process to release it, you’ll have to forgive yourself, but the point is simplistic. The solution is that change/becoming comes from being – and therefore it is who and how I will BE in moments that will form and determine what will accumulate, what will flow out, what will be created. We create all the time. We either create in awareness, or we create through what we accept and allow. We either create as who we are as life, or we create as who we are as systems, based on fear/inferiority, or delusions of grandeur. Fascinating the power of emotions and feelings – because we give it to them. And have a look how the system is set to entice people through energy, through sensationalism, through emotions/feelings, through fear. You don’t know what you want. You don’t know everything you can be. The system/mind tells you who you are and what you can do and be. Through your own acceptances and allowances.

Most people (except from those born into positions of power and control) are born into survival; most people’s preprogramming throughout generations has been to fail or struggle to ‘make it’ or to be outcast or misfits… We are born into a world system and as children we are dependent on accepting everything ‘as is’. And our world systems are such that each one is driven to the utmost inner hardship (whatever that may be subjectively for each one) with one purpose only: to make people submit to the systems, submerge themselves to survival mode, and give up on living life’s potential, give up on making more out of themselves in exploring their utmost potential in life and thus the potential of this one world that we have in common, this reality we all share.


...to be continued




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Mittwoch, 29. April 2015

545 | Embrace yourself, empower yourself - Part 2





Continuing from part 1 

<<To undo the world as we know it, we need to dig deep into the fabric of our existence.
Diffusing the separation is one step (and even that is a process in itself), but then we gotta keep on moving beyond fear and through the veils of the mind/system; to transcend the separation and the inferiority/superiority energy in moments real-time, by walking ourselves out of the mind-trap/system/trap and transforming fear and self-interest into LIVING in the interest of life. We must become the life force – as we embark on this journey of self creation in awareness, as life. In this we can indeed create a better world, create our ‘system’ in awareness, considering EVERYTHING that is here, we can bring forth a way of life that is sustainable, that is best for all, that supports life and the value of life as such.
We must start with ourselves.>>

We’ve been reacting for too long. Reacting to the world ‘out there’, reacting to the system, to our parents or family, to our jobs, to our ‘place in the world’, to our own minds.
Humanity has been through a rough ‘civilization’ and had reached puberty when it got caught up in a state of tantrum-throwing, either pitying itself and succumbing to fear or losing itself in delusions of grandeur. Looking at the world and looking into our own minds – this is what we can see. A constant struggle, a constant ‘survival mode’, a constant conflict of interests, but no-where (other than where enforced through control and oppression) an authority, an accountable corpus. What we need and where we can lead ourselves to is authority as life. Embracing life as the highest value and standing by that principle of oneness and equality as life – our world and our system could be so much different, they could serve us all as life and we could have heaven on earth.
Instead we have hell on earth – and in the minds. A hell that can only exist in separation, a hell that can only exist where responsibility is feared and power is either abused or abdicated.

Yet at the same time more and more the people are coming together, working together, realizing power in interconnectedness and on common ground.

An excellent moment to look at any and all associations or images or energetic reactions in relation to the word POWER – and I’m sure each one reading this now is having their very own combination of reactions that gives the unique taste of how that word sounds to each one. Investigate those attachments, and explore what real power is, and how would power be defined in a world where life is no longer abused and exploited.

Let’s go back to where we started in the previous post – we started with EMBRACING: The power to embrace myself.
The power to embrace myself – such a simplistic statement, yet so deep, so powerful – stopping the separation of self and being THE ONE to empower yourself, empower your life, and make of it the best version of yourself and the fullest potential of life/living for you and your world – our world.

I shared in the beginning how I forgive myself that I haven’t allowed myself to embrace myself. So why haven’t I allowed myself to embrace myself, all of me? Because there has been ‘parts of me’ that I had a reaction toward, that I had judged or feared or denied or suppressed… I had separated myself from embracing all of me, from getting to know and understand all of me, from taking responsibility for all of me. I realize this is a ‘path’ predesigned for everyone in this system. We ‘lose our awareness’, our purity, our self honesty and genuine curiosity and creativity quite early in life. It was designed this way.

Our challenge is thus to stop reacting to the system, stop reacting to our own design/lives; Our challenge is to change the design, to change the system – within ourselves and how WE live to begin with; taking this then ‘out into the world’ through the relationships we lead with people in our life … expanding and embracing life until humanity stands united as one, as life.

Sounds too way out? Not really, I mean practically each one need only live it in the context of their world and relationships; yet exponentially quantified, this will weave into the ‘way of life’ and transform the systems of our world, ideally into an organic collaboration and exchange or distribution network of LIFE.

Imagine all the people…living life in peace…yoo-hoo-woohoohoo…
Imagine yourself living in peace: what would it take?
And what are you waiting for?


...In the next post I will share more self forgiveness in deconstructing the system that keeps us from embracing ourselves and truly standing in our power as life.



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