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| ART by Rozelle De Lange |
This is continuing from
Day 164: Living Words in Self Agreement as Life | PRESENCE
Day 165: HERE & NOW - Changing Our Here into a Home for Life
Day 165: HERE & NOW - Changing Our Here into a Home for Life
INTIMACY
It’s fascinating
that the word Intimacy is mostly associated with relationships.
In fact we tend to
seek, expect and desire intimacy from others, or intimacy within the
relationship, without considering the obvious common sense that to receive
intimacy, one must give intimacy.
Intimacy in the
world matrix is defined through movies, books and media as something that one
shares with another in form of ‘special’ relationships or even secrets. Within
this however, we disregard the fact that ‘special’ relationships and/or secrets
require a certain enclosure or exclusivity, which means that others that do not
belong to that ‘intimate circle’ will be regarded as ‘less than’ and thus
treated as ‘less than’; and then abuse becomes likely, as life is not regarded
as equal but is seen through concepts of ‘more than’/’less than’.
Such definition of
intimacy, determined through comparison and polarity, creates energeticexperiences accordingly, which emerge from the value-judgments of ‘more than’
and ‘less than’ which, as we can see in this world, are then accepted as ‘real’
and ‘valid’.
What we can further
see in this world however is that such value-judgments and exclusivity of the
‘special’ creates separation, inequality, exploitation, abuse.
So what is actual
intimacy?
How to live intimacy
for real?
How to share
intimacy?
Intimacy /
Into-me-I-see
To see into me is
self-intimacy. Being intimate with self, seeing self for who and what self is
at any given moment, getting to know self.
In self-intimacy I
slow down to see into me in self-honesty, to realize and acknowledge what is
here within and as me at any given moment – where am I at, what am I facing
within and as me, what am I moving towards.
“...One can make the word
practical for self, in assisting and supporting self to align INTIMACY with the
development of ‘getting to know self’, which one will thus practically do with
writing, self forgiveness as the process of ‘seeing into self / the depths of
self’ to in this getting to know self, develop the intimacy of seeing the
totality of self/getting to know self, and in this practical intimacy development,
utilize intimacy to finally be able to stand within ‘who self is’ –
‘knowing/living who I am’ through and through; that there is no part of self
within self that is ‘unknown/secret/that self is unaware of’...”
This ‘seeing-into-me’
in self-intimacy can be shared in intimacy with another.
Intimacy would then be
the sharing of self with another; without projecting intimacy as something
separate from self or as something ‘more than’, without abdicating self to any concepts
and ideas of intimacy.
Intimacy is not an
experience; it is the sharing of self, with another self as equals – directly,
simplistically, for what it is.
FULFILMENT
In this world, we
are conditioned to SEARCH for fulfilment outside of self.
Further, what
everyone can see if one looks in self-honesty, is that we tend to always want
and expect something ‘more’, something ‘better’, based on ideas and concepts of
‘happiness’ that the system presents us with – which also means that our wants
and desires that we are trying to fulfil are not even our own.
This search for
something ‘more’ or ‘better’ or ‘higher’ is based on adopted/accepted
self-definitions of inadequacy and inferiority developed throughout our
formative years which we then seek to ‘balance out’ through external factors,
relationships, and concepts of ‘superiority’, ‘happiness’, ‘fulfilment’ –
refusing to see that
by definition as we ‘search’: we place fulfilment in separation from ourselves
and abdicate the authority for our fulfilment to others/external factors.
What also can be
seen, is that in a world where everyone is pursuing ‘personal happiness’ based
on conditioned patterns of wants, needs, fears, desires – we end up
MANIPULATING our world, our reality, our relationships in the name of fulfilling
self-interest, which we disregard the interest of life which would be what is
based for ALL life in all ways;
hence our existence of
Survival instead of Living, struggling within and as a human RACE where we
exist within and through mental concepts of ‘superiority’ and ‘inferiority’ and
thus in constant comparison and competition –
instead of
self-realizing LIFE as oneness and equality, as the Earthlings we all are.
Full-fill-ment
Full –
Getting ourselves
‘full’, we become comfortably numb, while we in fact starve ourselves of life.
Within this it is obvious: we only FOOL ourselves.
Fill –
We fill ourselves
with external “values” that can in fact never fulfil who we are as life because
they are not equal to life – they are only equal to the system, to polarity
constructs of ‘superiority’/’inferiority’; and we are trapped within and as
such polarity-system, as the one (superiority) cannot exist without the other
(inferiority).
Ment –
It’s meant to be –
thus preprogrammed.
All ways of seeking/finding
‘fulfilment’ are predetermined, as all our wants/needs/desires are wants/needs/desires
of personalities based on concepts conditioned through our minds according to
the polarity-impulses of the world system – our environment, our experiences,
our accepted definitions, our value judgments.
What I noticed
within relationships especially, is that we tend to be so preoccupied with what
we think we want, that we miss what is here – we miss ourselves and we fail to
see, realize and understand that actual fulfilment cannot be given, cannot be
attained or achieved, it can only be LIVED into existence through and as who
self is.
Thus actual
fulfilment is in fact SELF-fulfilment, wherein one assist and support oneself
to live to one’s utmost potential.
Common-sensically
thus, fulfilment should be about living to the fullest of one’s abilities in
every moment, thus fulfilling self – through self-application as who and what
one would like to be and become in the context of Life and Real Living.
If one look at one’s
Life as a glass and one’s Living as the water that is poured into the glass,
filling the glass – then it is obvious that one’s life becomes that which one
lives in every moment of breath.
Self-fulfilment
would be Living in self-honesty, thus living in a way that, when the glass is
full, one can be satisfied that one has lived in alignment to who one really is
and that there is no taste of shame or regret in the water – and that one could
without any hesitation drink the water from that glass or even offer it to any
brother or sister of Life to drink, certain that it would cause no harm but
rather give Life, as it is made of Life/Living.
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