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Montag, 9. September 2013

479 | Survival is not Living

ART by Andrew Gable





Lately I’ve been having an interesting experience in terms of enjoyment, wherein I’d find myself enjoying myself within my environment, like enjoying noises from the surroundings and finding myself within the neighborhood, my neighborhood; enjoying also short encounters with people around shops and cafes; enjoying walking through the streets and the park or riding my bike around. Enjoying the plants at my place and the idea of a cat in da house!

What I also realize is the difference between imposing self-enjoyment as an energetic / mental-feeling experience, an illusion imposed unto the physical, just to feel better; and actual living self-enjoyment within the context of one’s practical living, of who I am and how I live, how I appreciate life as myself and how I am being part of this world that is me.


Survival is based in competition and is characterized by lack of understanding and ignorance toward responsibility.
Living is based in consideration and entails understanding and the realization of responsibility, as well as the actual will to stand, to live, to be here.
































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Freitag, 19. April 2013

354 | The Nastiness of the Misfit


ART by Marlen Vargas


Continuing from
Day 352 | My Life Journey from Misfit to Earthling
Day 351 | “My Life” - The Ignorance of the Misfit
Day 350 | Beliefs & Self-Definitions in relation to „My Life“
Day 349 | Self Commitment - Responsibility for „My Life“ & Responsibility for Life as a Whole
Day 348 | Self Commitment - "My Life"
Day 347 | Self Commitment & Desteni I Process



Here is a point I looked into, especially out of the experience and observation of the tendency to envy other people’s lives in comparison to one’s own life. Where one has the impression that others always have more, are more, get more etc. and one gets oneself into a self-pitying state of mind where the ego goes “but what about ME?”, and there you have it: nastiness is born.

As I have explained in previous blog posts, there is an interesting polarity manifest in the construct of ‘the misfit’:
Defining oneself as a misfit and sticking to it, is actually an act of ignorance – merely yet another self-image that may even make one ‘feel better’ about oneself because one is then somehow ‘different’. This would be an example of arrogance, based in a perceived ‘superiority’, which mostly tends to be the case if one’s mind has the tendency to cling to ‘positivity’.
There exists the opposite polarity as well, especially in the case where one’s mind has the tendency to cling to ‘negativity’. Here one tends to go into self-victimization. One will then blame the system, blame society, blame everyone else, and will feel sorry for oneself and wallow in self-pity because one tends to see oneself as a victim.
A consequence/outflow of the misfit construct can be seen for instance in the formation of groupings of all kinds, within which the separation of self from society/the world as a whole is accentuated. This either results into the isolation of the grouping, or into rebellion and revolt, always based on an approach of ‘us’ vs. ‘them’.


Obviously, the world as it is – the system as it is and therefore also society currently – is one factor/reason why the point of ‘fitting in’ or ‘not fitting in’ exists in the first place. Because have a look, if we had a world /a system /a society that took care of all its citizens and supported all life equally – there would be no misfits. This is why I stand for an equal money system, because I see the necessity to restore the value of LIFE in this world.

The nastiness of the misfit is seen not only in for instance hidden envy or hidden blame, but also in a spiteful attitude towards the world in general. It’s like, “I don’t fit into this world, so fuck the system” – which is an attitude not few people adopt without ever questioning and examining how the system is manifested in the first place and what makes up the system, which is in fact US, the people.

From this realization in self-honesty, one should be able to in a moment realize the self-deception and limitation that goes with a self-definition like this.

Though – granted – this is not an easy task.

As I have written in previous posts, the most prominent experience I have had throughout my life was that of ‘not fitting in’ – which is also why I initially named this Blog “A Misfit’s Journey to Life”.
Throughout my experience and self-definition as a ‘misfit’, I for a long time considered myself ‘superior’ to the people that were able to easily integrate themselves within the system, I considered those people to be merely sheep while I considered myself to be ‘something better’. It is easy to see the arrogance and nastiness within this, especially since there is no questioning about what it is the shapes the human, what it is that forms what we call ‘human nature’.
I then, with time and the support of the Desteni process tools, realized that there had in fact existed a suppressed feeling of ‘inferiority’ within me, because actually there was a time where I did want and wish to be ‘normal’, to be just like everyone else, to ‘fit in’, to not have to feel ‘different’ or the ‘odd one out’.

In an attempt to compensate for such ‘inferior’ experiences – instead of examining the experience of ‘inferiority’ in self-honesty – I had attempted to make myself ‘more’, and so I suppressed and denied that experience within myself, and created all kinds of beliefs about people, society, the world, and myself, making myself feel ‘superior’ in my mind and finding ways to exist that made me ‘feel better’ about myself. One such ‘way’ was the spiritual path. 
(If you want to read more about how I dealt with spirituality, do a search on my Blog.)

Also, do have a look at Matti Freeman’s latest posts on
Sales, Spirituality and Self-Interest
Sales, Spirituality and Self-Interest – What are you being Sold?
where the nastiness of the misfit (many of whom tend to get absorbed into ‘spirituality’ and ‘positivity’ which is nothing else but the ‘new age consumerism’: I call it light for profit, and obviously it is the light that blinds you from seeing reality for what it is.


If you are able to see the necessity for asking the ‘difficult questions’ and getting to self-honesty about the Self and the World, I’d suggest to explore the Desteni websites, forums and material and do your research, because in this world: nothing is really what it seems to be. 
It’s worth examining what it is we are buying into, both within and without.





ART by Kelly Posey












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How I was able to Hear the Desteni Message <<< PDF Download - Blog Compilation

What the FAQ in an Equal Money System – Volume 2 <<< PDF Download
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Samstag, 9. März 2013

316 | Self-Forgiveness & Practical Self-Movement - The I-Process on the Journey to Life

ART by Desteni Artists



Here in this blog I’d like to share a perspective I shared in the context of DIP-Lite, the free course we have launched on the Desteni platform.

The point the person was facing and dealing with was an experience of self-failure resulting into/from self-judgment in thoughts and cycles of self-sabotage as in having great difficulty to get out of bed in the mornings. I share my support comment here on my Blog as it may assist others to realize the practicality of self-forgiveness.



Here some additional points to consider:

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to go into self-judgment.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to submit to a value-system of 'superiority' and ' inferiority', and to within that judge myself as 'inferior'/'less than' in comparison to my beliefs/ideas/concepts which I value as 'superior'.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to 'justify' my self-judgment in my mind, thinking and believing that I 'deserve' this judgment, therefore I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to 'punish' myself with judgment.

I forgive myself that I haven't allowed myself to see that as I follow the mind and the thoughts of judgment and the feelings of 'inferiority' - I go into self-sabotage, I sabotage myself to 'justify' staying in bed, not supporting myself, not moving myself.

I forgive myself that I haven't allowed myself to see that as long as I exist in self-judgment, I am not standing in equality as oneness within/as me.

I forgive myself to follow self-judgment in the mind like an addiction.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed to believe the thought that "I deserve this judgment" "because I am inferior" "See this is what it would be to be superior" and "you are not good enough".

I see and realize that I am able to apply the corrections/alignments that I see would support me in my practical living - without making it an issue of 'superiority'/'inferiority'.

And if I in the past did something out of desire for 'superiority' - yet I see that the mere application supports me and my expression, for instance getting up early and getting to work prepared - I can continue with the application and make of it a real self-expression:
"this is me, this is how I approach my life and my work, this is how I enjoy myself within what I do."
Within this, there is no issue of 'superiority'/'inferiority'.

When I see myself not wanting to get out of bed - I ask myself, what is it that I don't want to face? Is it just the cold? Then I support myself to have the room warmer, or make myself a hot cup of tea to drink in awareness once I wake up... 

Or is it not only the cold? Then I for instance can have a small notebook with me to be able throughout my day take some notes on any points/thoughts/reactions that come up / or to write down the thoughts that keep me from sleeping at night, so that later when I have the time for myself I can look at and explore these points and who I am within that - to take self-responsibility for my experience, and get to know myself, get to support myself.




So - realize that change is a process and thus takes time. After all, it must be real, it must be who we are / who self is, for real, not just another idea, not just another image or personality.

In this process, the best support we can give ourselves is to breathe, walk breath-by-breath, slow down. Walk step by step and be patient with self.

Remind yourself of this every time you see yourself going into self-judgment:
it is simply a game of the mind that you don't have to play. Forgive yourself. Let it go. Find a practical point to support yourself with.



You will notice that to get out of bed in the morning, you have to stop for a moment and then move yourself to get up. So it's a decision that you make to stop thinking, stop 'worrying', stop the experience you're having, and move yourself - otherwise you can't get up.

This is basically the 'blueprint' for the process, the journey to life in general: a movement of self-directive will is required for change; and to actually move oneself, one has to stop that within oneself which keeps oneself from actually moving.

Yet this is not done through fighting or through being hard on oneself. Yes, one has to be directive and committed to walk a process of change. But remember, as long as we 'fight' we cannot stand, because we are fighting against ourselves.

That's why to stop/transcend the mind is actually to stop/transcend oneself, one's limitations -
That's why to live equality and oneness within/as self implies that there will be no inner struggle, no fighting, no fear, no desire, no separation into a 'superiority' or an 'inferiority'...

It's a process.


Change is a movement, an actual physical movement (just like we can see in the example of getting out of bed in the morning).

It's about becoming the self-directive will of 'who I am' - in a way that supports self/life.


What can be seen here is that self-judgment is not supporting ourselves as life.
And that we can assist ourselves by stopping self-judgment and applying practical solutions/self-support. So every time self-judgment comes up, we can self-forgive = let go = breathe - and gently move self out of the self-judgment or any reaction and towards self-support living/practicality.

...And yes, breathing/self-awareness here as breath assists self to move self - gently, yet with determination.




ART by Marlen Vargas



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http://equalmoney.org/forum/

http://desteniIprocess.com

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http://equal-money-revolution.blogspot.com
http://EarthGlobalReview.wordpress.com


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http://earthsjourneytolife.blogspot.com
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http://economistjourneytolife.blogspot.com
http://desteni.org/articles



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Spirituality Under the Microscope - Volume 2 <<< PDF Download
How I was able to Hear the Desteni Message <<< PDF Download - Blog Compilation

What the FAQ in an Equal Money System – Volume 2 <<< PDF Download
Hell Spoof <<< MP3 Download - Music for Equality
What makes me Starve in a World of Plenty <<< MP3 Dow
nload - Music for Equality



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Sonntag, 17. Februar 2013

296 | Reward-Punishment Polarity & Predictive Programming: “Jealousy”

ART by Kelly Posey


...Predictive programming, the root of which is the parenting system of humanity which, regardless what culture, country, race, religion, tradition: is always based on the polarity of REWARD and PUNISHMENT.
...Using Reward and Punishment, the parents KNOW they are applying predictive programming. It’s not that one would call it that as a parent, but each parent KNOWS exactly what they are doing and why, when they for instance give treats / sweets / affection / reassurance etc. as REWARD as well as when they give harsh words / rejection / withdrawal / pain etc. as PUNISHMENT.


For context see:
Day 295 | Predictive Programming & Polarity Consciousness
Day 294 | Predictive Programming & Man Know ThySelf
Day 293 | Predictive Programming & Mass Manipulation –part2
Day 292 | Predictive Programming & Mass Manipulation
Day 291 | The Power of the Group & Predictive Programming


Continuing:

In this blog post I expand on the point of reward and punishment.
An interesting consequence / after-effect that this system creates is: jealousy.

Before exploring the manifestation of jealousy, I’d like to explore the point of polarity, as seen within the application (and the acceptance) of: reward and punishment.

So what does the polarity of reward and punishment do?

It creates / forms / imposes a Value-system of polarity. The child will start seeing itself and its world in terms of ‘superiority’ -‘inferiority’ / ‘better’-‘worse’ and will start in its mind to ‘keep score’, start comparing/utilizing comparison, and start competing with others and with the ideas and expectations imposed onto it by its environment, without the child however having or receiving an actual understanding of ‘what is going on’.

As a consequence, the child is submerged and becomes subject to: these/such polarity games, seeing itself and its world/reality in polarity terms of ‘superiority’ and ‘inferiority’.

From this, ‘jealousy’ is an outflow.

If the value-system of ‘superiority’-‘inferiority’ did not exist, there would only exist self-worth as life, and from here, we’d have an entirely different way of life, of living, communicating, socializing.


So the problem with polarity designs / polarity systems, is that they replace the value of life with polarity-values, which – as we can see very clearly for example within the consumerism-system – only manifest conflict, competition, war, at the cost of life.

Life is not valued as such.

And this we can see within how children are treated and ‘educated’. In fact children are, through reward and punishment, basically mis-educated to ‘fit into’ the world, which is the system.


So within looking at how to change the world and how to change the system, it is obvious that we should equally look at how to change the system within self – how to transcend the system within and as self; How to move beyond polarity and purify one’s value-system to be in fact worthy of life, as life.

This is the understanding on which the principle of equality is based, because if we cannot have equality as oneness, then we’ll only continued our existence of separation, conflict, war, deception, suppression, denial, and will fail as human beings and as humanity to stand-up and take responsibility for Life, as who we all really are.

Equality as Oneness – this should be the common-sense living application of human beings. Just like the cells in/of a body: the exist in equality as oneness. Otherwise there would be no body to host the consciousness that inhabits it. So it’s self-evident that the human consciousness should honor this principle and learn from it, explore what it means to live in equality as oneness, within and without.

Surely, such living application would eliminate jealousy once and for all, lol


That is why I suggest one check out Desteni, there is now a free online course that provides the basics in terms of self-honesty, self-introspection, and constructive writing, so that one can start looking at the patterns of one’s life/self and taking responsibility for our existence, individually and as a whole.




Check out the Desteni I Process Lite –
FREE course that will assist humanity to end the disaster of a dysfunctional consciousness.



Check out the Equal Money System –
a solution that can be established in this lifetime to end the disaster of a profit driven system.



Join the Journey to Life !


For support and participation visit:
http://forum.desteni.org
http://equalmoney.org/forum/

http://desteniIprocess.com

Visit my Blog sites:
http://breath-expression.blogspot.com
http://equal-money-revolution.blogspot.com
http://EarthGlobalReview.wordpress.com


Read up on the MIND and CREATION:
http://creationsjourneytolife.blogspot.com
http://earthsjourneytolife.blogspot.com
http://heavensjourneytolife.blogspot.com
http://economistjourneytolife.blogspot.com
http://desteni.org/articles



Downloadables @ eqafe for FREE:
* Quantum Mind Self Awareness - Step 1 and Step 2 <<< MP3 Downloads
* LifeReview - My Life as a Peace Activist <<< MP3 Download
The Spirituality of the Snail <<< MP3 Download
Spirituality Under the Microscope - Volume 2 <<< PDF Download
How I was able to Hear the Desteni Message <<< PDF Download - Blog Compilation

What the FAQ in an Equal Money System – Volume 2 <<< PDF Download
Hell Spoof <<< MP3 Download - Music for Equality
What makes me Starve in a World of Plenty <<< MP3 Dow
nload - Music for Equality




ART by Rozelle De Lange


Samstag, 28. Juli 2012

Day 101: Character 101 - The Self Imagery we Create in Self-Deception


ART by Rozelle De Lange


I forgive myself that I haven't allowed myself to see, realize and understand that characters are created in the formative years as the child starts to form ideas and pictures of and about itself in the MIND, based on how it sees adults characterize the world and each-other as images and ideas;

and that within that, the child will start THINKING about who it is supposed to be or who it desires to be based on the super-hero imagery presented to it, thus accessing comparison and creating judgments and opinions in relation to itself in the MIND, based on the feedback it gets from parents, environment, peers.

I forgive myself that I haven't allowed myself to see, realize and understand that we create ourselves as characters in the MIND because we have no clue who we really are; and instead of the parents supporting the child in getting to know itself, they support the child in becoming "something"; and in this pursuit of BECOMING: what is completely ignored is what the child IS as an expression of life, as a living being.

I forgive myself that I haven't allowed myself to see, realize and understand that to 'become' "something" - implies the creation of a construct based on a mental concept that is conceived through value-judgment, comparison and other perceptual filters that are conditioned through the world consciousness system of survival.

I forgive myself that I haven't allowed myself to see, realize and understand that by placing 'value' on becoming SOMETHING conceptualized and perceived as 'valuable', we implicitly accept that who we are HERE is not valuable, is not worthy, and that only once we BECOME "something" will we be worthy and valuable = these are also the principles based on which the consumerism systems creates 'values' for us to buy into, in our quest for 'more', 'better', 'higher' - while we completely disregard our value as life, HERE.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed a world where a child comes into existence with no choice but to see and accept itself as ‘inferior’ to its parents and environment, and is exposed to the adult value-judgments; and that the child will start observing what is seen as ‘inferior’ and what is seen as ‘superior’ by the adult and will from there start creating in its MIND ideas, concepts, and ways to BECOME ‘superior’ so that it may accepted and integrated in this world where it is given no other opportunity to communicate and be accepted other than conforming to the ideas, concepts and ‘values’ of the system.

Within this I forgive myself that I haven’t allowed myself to see, realize and understand that what we create is our own accepted ‘inferiority’ and thus inevitably the endless search for ‘MORE’ in the attempt to be/become ‘superior’ – and that within that we completely disregard and deny the VALUE of LIFE.

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed an existence where we see ourselves and each-other as pictures in the mind and based on that we act out different characters according to situation/context -

which implies that we do not really interact with each-other as beings of LIFE, but only as organic robots defined through value-judgments and comparison based on 'values' of the MIND that are placed before life;

and that we are not sovereign beings that live in self-honesty and common sense the actuality of reality that is HERE, but are instead split within ourselves into multiple personalities creating only disorder in our world as we exist in separation within alternate realities of the mind where self is always the 'super-hero' attempting to create a 'happy end' in the Hollywood movie of one's mind, regardless the cost for everyone and everything else.



I commit myself to sharing the common sense that any and all personalities/characters created in the process of 'fitting in' to this consciousness system once born into the world: are fake characters based on accepted ‘inferiority’ and striving for ‘superiority’, thus designed to SURVIVE through competition - and not real characters as life, as physical bodies LIVING in equality and oneness through common sense in harmony with all that is here.

I commit myself to exposing the insanity of the fact that even though the value of life is equal in all, we create fake characters to hide behind; characters which we then 'evaluate' as 'superior' or 'inferior' based on images, ideas, and 'values' presented to us by the profit-based consumerism system to keep us enslaved in the mind, distracted so that we never question the insanity of this reality we have accepted and allowed as if there was no other way to exist here.

I commit myself to sharing the common sense that our individual characters and the patterns of our inner existence manifest the character of the world and the patterns of our systems -

and that in order to change the character of the world and transform our system to actually support life:

we require to investigate within ourselves where and how we betray and abuse life in the name of self-interest through mental 'values' other than LIFE.

I commit myself to sharing the common sense that as long as we identify with the fake characters we have created as ourselves: we will exist in fear, desire, competition, self-righteousness and justification; thinking only of ourselves and disregarding the actuality of this physical reality we all share, where 2/3 of the world is left to suffer in the name of OUR love for OUR self-interest, OUR desires, OUR addictions, OUR dreams.

I commit myself to sharing the common sense that to exist as a character through the mind is equal to dreaming, trapped within an alternate reality of the mind in separation from self as life.

I commit myself to showing that to stop self from existing as characters is going to take courage, because we exist in fear to such an extent that we want/need/desire to KNOW and to DEFINE who and what we are, as only then we get a sense of 'control' or 'safety' or 'value' -

and that in the process of letting go of the fake and removing the layers of delusion, we have to be willing to be NOTHING, to simply be here, because HERE is the only 'place' where we can truly 'meet' self and get to know who we really are -

whereas through and as the mind we are in fact always projecting ourselves trying to 'get somewhere', always seeking but never really finding because we are in fact attempting to escape self, to hide from our creation, to deny our responsibility, to suppress our actual experience, to get away from HERE because obviously: in the mind anyone can create an illusion of happiness, love, light, and all the 'shiny' things that make on 'feel better for a moment... In the mind, anyone can be king - but it's not real.

I commit myself to sharing the common sense that we cannot escape who we are nor deny the consequences of our creation – and that we are either going to face ourselves through self-will in self-honesty; or life will confront us with events and situations where we’ll be forced to facing ourselves and the consequences of what we accept and allow.

I commit myself to stopping myself from accessing or acting out a character the moment I become aware of a character 'becoming alive' within and as me, as an energetic reaction, a self-definition, a judgment, a thought.

I commit myself to assisting and supporting myself and others as me through the desteni I process to integrate and apply the tools of self-honesty, self-forgiveness, common sense, self-corrective application - to train ourselves in recognizing the fake and to strengthen ourselves in stopping it, until nothing remains but life as who we really are.

I commit myself to investigating all the ideas, concepts, fears and desires I have created, accepted, adopted, allowed within myself about myself - so that I, step by step, remove each and every layer of self-delusion, stop the self-deception of a mentally characterized existence, and set myself free to live as life, as a physical being standing accountable for who I am and thus taking responsibility equally for my world –

so that we may leave behind a world that will support life in fact and will enable the new children born into this world to be and become LIFE - instead of becoming fake characters in a fake world system in the name of Profit called 'love' and based on 'fear'.

I commit myself to bringing forth a new equality system for our world based on the value of life, and put an end to the consumerism system of profit that is selling us desires and fears and ‘values’ other than life – so that we may once and for all put an end to the deception, abuse and exploitation of life, and manifest an existence where LIFE is honoured and supported as the only actual value that we ALL EQUALLY share.





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