These days I had some time off and I took the
opportunity to write some emails on a subject that I had put quite behind on my
list of priorities.
As I was writing the emails and communicating some
points to the people involved in the particular project, I realized that I had
projected expectations, both onto myself and onto others, and that the more I
had postponed directing the point the more I would resist it and slide it
further down my list of priorities.
So here obviously we have a case of procrastination,
and I´ll be going into this particular point in my next blog post; in this post
however I would like to share this simplistic yet fulfilling experience of
satisfaction within the context of me taking up communication within the
particular project and writing some emails to give the point direction. The
satisfaction coming from the starting-point of self-movement, realizing that “I
just did it” and “hey it wasn’t that bad or that difficult after all”.
And suddenly also realizing that the key to movement
is within effective and practical communication, and most importantly: direct /
directive communication –
This is then opening up another key point, namely that
of `self communication´, i.e. who and how we are within and toward ourself;
Because obviously, how can we want or expect effective
communication with others, when we within ourselves have no effective self
communication, in terms of self-honesty – for instance within how we approach
things or people, how we look at others and at ourselves, things we even hide
from ourselves like fears and inferiorities and motives, things we deny or
suppress, things we ignore or refuse to consider, the expectations that we
project, the judgments that we cast, how we shift responsibility to ´others’…
hmm, that´s quite a list isn´t it, and it all comes down to `self
communication´ and thus the self-honesty of who we are within and toward
ourselves and our own inner processes, both mental and emotional.
So – communication – let´s have a look: Communication
consists of words, which consist of definitions and meanings, which is
something like symbols and signs.
Now – when the signs we exchange are not clear and/or when
the symbols we use are not seen for what they are (let alone that people often have
different interpretations/values/meanings for the same symbol, an infamous
example all can relate to being the word ` love´), then it’s unlikely that
communication will be clear, direct, and effective.
Here I’m therefore also sharing the importance of
developing effective communication skills, effective looking and seeing skills,
which is essentially the ability to see
and assess reality with unbiased clarity.
Within this, WRITING is an awesome tool towards
CLARITY, as within Writing we are able to transfer what is inside (the mind)
into the outside (the physical: here, written out on paper or print) and check
it against reality, self-honesty and practical common sense; to then make
evaluations and corrections where required, aligning thus our thoughts, words
and deeds, from the inside to the outside, and taking self-responsibility and
establishing response-able self communication.
Getting ourselves to clear and direct communication is
a vital life skill and assists us in realizing the self-directive will that can
be ‘found’ within self-honesty and self-awareness, cross-referenced with common
sense physical reality.
Yep – writing, communicating, taking responsibility
for points in my life, being directive within communication: this is, I find,
something truly fulfilling, something wherein we are even able to self-realize
our creative ability and in-form ourselves to human beings that will redefine
the term ‘human nature’ by living a new paradigm of the things everyone wishes
for: peace, freedom, brotherhood, dignity of life and fun!
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