Day 503 | Satisfaction within Being Directive in Communication

These days I had some time off and I took the opportunity to write some emails on a subject that I had put quite behind on my list of priorities.

As I was writing the emails and communicating some points to the people involved in the particular project, I realized that I had projected expectations, both onto myself and onto others, and that the more I had postponed directing the point the more I would resist it and slide it further down my list of priorities.

So here obviously we have a case of procrastination, and I´ll be going into this particular point in my next blog post; in this post however I would like to share this simplistic yet fulfilling experience of satisfaction within the context of me taking up communication within the particular project and writing some emails to give the point direction. The satisfaction coming from the starting-point of self-movement, realizing that “I just did it” and “hey it wasn’t that bad or that difficult after all”.

And suddenly also realizing that the key to movement is within effective and practical communication, and most importantly: direct / directive communication  –

This is then opening up another key point, namely that of `self communication´, i.e. who and how we are within and toward ourself;

Because obviously, how can we want or expect effective communication with others, when we within ourselves have no effective self communication, in terms of self-honesty – for instance within how we approach things or people, how we look at others and at ourselves, things we even hide from ourselves like fears and inferiorities and motives, things we deny or suppress, things we ignore or refuse to consider, the expectations that we project, the judgments that we cast, how we shift responsibility to ´others’… hmm, that´s quite a list isn´t it, and it all comes down to `self communication´ and thus the self-honesty of who we are within and toward ourselves and our own inner processes, both mental and emotional.

So – communication – let´s have a look: Communication consists of words, which consist of definitions and meanings, which is something like symbols and signs.

Now – when the signs we exchange are not clear and/or when the symbols we use are not seen for what they are (let alone that people often have different interpretations/values/meanings for the same symbol, an infamous example all can relate to being the word ` love´), then it’s unlikely that communication will be clear, direct, and effective.

Here I’m therefore also sharing the importance of developing effective communication skills, effective looking and seeing skills, which is essentially the ability to see and assess reality with unbiased clarity.

Within this, WRITING is an awesome tool towards CLARITY, as within Writing we are able to transfer what is inside (the mind) into the outside (the physical: here, written out on paper or print) and check it against reality, self-honesty and practical common sense; to then make evaluations and corrections where required, aligning thus our thoughts, words and deeds, from the inside to the outside, and taking self-responsibility and establishing response-able self communication.

Getting ourselves to clear and direct communication is a vital life skill and assists us in realizing the self-directive will that can be ‘found’ within self-honesty and self-awareness, cross-referenced with common sense physical reality.

Yep – writing, communicating, taking responsibility for points in my life, being directive within communication: this is, I find, something truly fulfilling, something wherein we are even able to self-realize our creative ability and in-form ourselves to human beings that will redefine the term ‘human nature’ by living a new paradigm of the things everyone wishes for: peace, freedom, brotherhood, dignity of life and fun!

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This Daily Task will Give us the Bread of Life - Home-Made with Purified Water

I decided to start writing daily.

Writing consistently throughout years, I have discovered the power of writing as a recreational tool. Since I started my process of self-forgiveness with Desteni some 4-5 years ago, writing has been the directive action I take to clarify my mind, see through the patterns of my backchat and give myself direction in self-honesty, as I redefine my existence from self-interest as ego to self-awareness as life - a process we are all walking at Desteni.

All of us who are standing-up to become accountable individuals and manifest a world that will be best for all life equally: are walking the process of investigating and effectively directing the influences we are controlled by within and without - this can only be done in self-honesty and the willingness to see what we have been accepting and allowing ourselves to exist within and as. This process must be walked and tested individually, yet in the realization of life as oneness in interconnectedness, thus in awareness of what is best for life/all.
That is also where equality comes in to make the oneness real and effective - and this equality is yet another point that begins within self.
So it is to investigate: where and how i am subject to polarities and inner conflict, how was that created and how did i participate in the creation thereof? That is where self-responsibility comes in = the key to self-willed realization. What are we making ourselves real as? That is the question - and the current answer is in the face of this world we've manifested as well as in the face of our personal relations and relationships that we entertain in all possible ways. To investigate and direct/stop the accepted mind-control which is the result of the influences we've been exposed to in this reality is the only way to free ourselves from the matrix of separation, polarity and self-interest (where we're only out to 'win' not realizing that for one to win others must lose) and to realize ourselves as self-willed equals of life, as accountable individuals that live life to the fullest and are dedicated to bring-forth a life-support system that will allow every single being to do the same.

The proof is within our world, within how our relationships change, within how we participate in our reality and what difference we make.
But if one is looking for proof from others, then that would be no different to following a religion or worshiping a guru or existing in a self-religion of the mind, which is what everyone in this world ends up doing as ego. We are here to stop ego and birth life. This each one must do for oneself - no other can breathe for you, no other can self-realize for you. Thus: apply and test the tools in self-honesty and be/become your own living proof. However, due to the nature of ego, it is highly unlikely to self-realize alone - as feedback is required to make sure one do not lose oneself in the self-delusion matrices of one's mind/ego. This (self-)support is what we are walking at Desteni, while we self-honestly investigate ourselves in the context of this whole world-system / mind-system that has nothing but atrocity and indignity left to give.
Best to forgive - and start giving life back to life.


This is my commitment to daily writing and publishing. You can do the same.
"The daily Self-Task to place yourself in writing in a structured way will in time be your proven sanity, trust, honesty and consistency that transcend all ego. All the structure must show is your dedication to what is best for all life and the confirmation through cross-referenced feedback that you are in fact living this commitment breath by breath into being - as you, as life. This will support you effectively when you get to the point of no return called death and you are measured to see if you are in fact life and worthy to be recognized as life."

The interview Finding your purpose in the journey to life supported me in making the decision of daily writing, as a physical evidence of my daily I-process, wherein I walk the self-investigation and transformation of the patterns of my 'I' - the self-consciousness I've existed as throughout my life as a system in this world system, this existence - into a living-expression that exists as and brings forth equality into the oneness we are and dignity of life into living.

This is how we'll form a new system of actual life-support - a system as ourselves, in the realization that a system is nothing more but the relationships formed by its individual parts, and that is us, the people.
So we are the dough, and as we purify and re-form ourselves, we will form the Bread for Life as ourselves, and we will give what we would like to receive, until all are able to not only eat the Bread of Life but also to create it, and all will be creators and all will be equals, as Life.

Let's walk!