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Montag, 13. Mai 2013

378. Redefining ME | What is Perfection? 'Success' vs. 'Failure'?

Continuing from
Day 376. Redefining ME | From Alone to AllOne
Day 375 | Redefining ME | Self Commitment - to LIVE
Day 374 | Redefining ME | Self Religion continued: Living vs. Doing
Day 373 | Redefining ME | Self Religion continued: Feeling Good vs. Feeling Bad
Day 371 | Redefining ME – Debunking Self Religion

Day 363 | Love in My Life
Day 362 | Are we just Earthlings ???
Day 361 | An Earthling’s Journey to Life
Day 360 | My Life is Me - Equal Life Foundation
Day 359 | My Life is Me
Day 358 | Who is the Self within Self-Interest
Day 357 | Is Consciousness All I Can Be?
Day 356 | Self Commitment - Stopping the Negativity in My Life
Day 355 | Misfit > Transfit > Earthling > LIFE : A New Destiny is Possible
Day 354 | The Nastiness of the Misfit
Day 352 | My Life Journey from Misfit to Earthling
Day 351 | “My Life” - The Ignorance of the Misfit

Day 350 | Beliefs & Self-Definitions in relation to „My Life“
Day 349 | Self Commitment - Responsibility for „My Life“ & Responsibility for Life as a Whole
Day 348 | Self Commitment - "My Life"
Day 347 | Self Commitment & Desteni I Process

It’s interesting that within this word and the definition of Perfection one can see clearly the polarity framework of how we are conditioned to live words:

Perfection within how we’ve defined it in the current/system/consciousness is connected both to a negative charge and to a positive charge.
The positive charge being the point of desiring perfection (interestingly enough we tend to project our expectations for perfection onto others/our world rather than exploring self-perfection);
And the negative charge being the point of fearing perfection, which is like a twisted self-sabotage tactic of the mind:

I realized that what is in fact feared is not perfection per se, but the physical practical effort that it takes to get there, to walk the steps that are required step-by-step until the perfection is accumulated through the number of breaths and actions required to in fact create a point of perfection.

Another aspect one reacts to with fear can be the responsibility that comes with perfection: because to live self-perfection one has to empower oneself, by becoming in self-honesty the directive authority within/of oneself in every moment; with this power comes responsibility, as one can no longer deny or ignore that which is unacceptable, that which is not supporting life, that which is a delusion/illusion/deception/dishonesty.

The problem, as one can see, within the definition of perfection as defined within the current system/consciousness, is that it is not practical: we all know how it is to project ideas and dreams of ‘ideal’ conditions – this then being our definition of Perfection, consequently Perfection will always seem ‘so far away’, so out there, just not here, unreachable… And so we tend to accept ‘failure’ and go into depression or feelings of inferiority, or one will deny/suppress that negative experience by superimposing positive states-of-mind / positivity / love & light and other mental-projections to make oneself feel-better/look-better, which by definition is delusional.

So within seeing this problem, one can also already see the solution – How to redefine perfection to be practical, livable, applicable:

Walking self-perfection in every here-moment, with every breath, instead of projecting it ‘out there’ and making it seem ‘so big’ that it looks ‘unachievable’.

This would mean that one has looked into the practical steps and actions/application that is required in order to perfect oneself within a particular point, and one has committed oneself to walk step-by-step, breath-by-breath, applying oneself in every moment, thus living self-perfection in every moment.

So within that, perfection / self-perfection is no longer idealized and projected, nor is it an end-goal that one has to ‘attain’/ ‘achieve’ / ‘accomplish’; but is something practical and applicable:
Giving it your all in every moment, wouldn’t that be the highest level of self-perfection and self-accomplishment a human being is able to live?

It is simplistic, yet it is not easy –
because we are so used to being distracted in our minds with thoughts and emotional/feeling reactions that we tend to have difficulty dedicating ourselves to a single moment, in the context of a task or a project.
And yet – being fully here in self-awareness as self-directive authority in every moment of breath: wouldn’t that be a living example of self-perfection at its utmost?

Therefore, I within this re-commit myself to assisting and supporting myself to ‘remain here’ in every moment, to be here in awareness, and to no longer allow myself to be distracted or (self-)sabotaged by the automated thoughts or emotional/feeling reactions that automatically come-up in the mind as conditioned.

Already the application of daily writing has been a great support point in terms of being here and directing a point/a task without allowing distractions in the mind. I would definitely suggest the process of writing yourself to freedom, and to see more examples of this I’d suggest checking out the Journey To Life group where people from all around the world post their writings daily.

Some more self-support blogs on this point:
“Perfection” - by Adam Closs
and
“How to Look and Feel your Best” - by Malin Gunilla

Also on this point see the following Awesome Insights by Bernard Poolman (several entries, thus make sure to scroll-down)!

Check out the Desteni I Process Lite – a FREE course that will assist humanity to end the disaster of a dysfunctional consciousness.

Check out the Equal Money System – a solution that can be established in this lifetime to end the disaster of a profit driven system.

Study:

Equal Money Movement
Equal Money Capitalism - Economist's Journey to Life
Politics and Political Action Re-Evaluated

Criminology, Cause & Effect, and How to establish a Society that's Pro-Life
Practicality for the Transcendence Process of Human Systems

Common Sense Considerations in the Light of Mankind's History

Psychology and How it can be used to Support Human Life

MUST-READ on Life and Creation:

http://creationsjourneytolife.blogspot.com

http://earthsjourneytolife.blogspot.com

http://heavensjourneytolife.blogspot.com

http://activistsjourneytolife.blogspot.com
http://desteni.org/articles

For support and participation visit:
http://forum.desteni.org
http://equalmoney.org/forum/

http://desteniIprocess.com

Join us in the Journey to Life !

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* Quantum Mind Self Awareness - Step 1 and Step 2 <<< MP3 Downloads
* LifeReview - My Life as a Peace Activist <<< MP3 Download
* The Spirituality of the Snail <<< MP3 Download
* Spirituality Under the Microscope - Volume 2 <<< PDF Download
* How I was able to Hear the Desteni Message <<< PDF Download - Blog Compilation
* What the FAQ in an Equal Money System – Volume 2 <<< PDF Download
* Hell Spoof <<< MP3 Download - Music for Equality
* What makes me Starve in a World of Plenty <<< MP3 Download - Music for Equality

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http://EarthGlobalReview.wordpress.com

Montag, 28. Januar 2013

277: It’s a Bipolar World – For We are Trapped in Polarity

ART by Matti Freeman

Continuing from

Day 276: It’s a Bipolar World – We just Don’t Get it

Day 275: The Power of Breath in Every Moment
Day 274: Journey to Life through Daily Writing & Self-Honest Introspection

In my previous post I discussed an observation I made with elderly people – an observation that in fact applies to all human beings and how we exist. (You can read the post here for the sake of context: )

I referred to how the experience and the expression / the acting-out thereof will be ‘unique’, the pattern however will be the same:
it’s an energetic, bipolar manifestation.

We’ve looked at the energetic dimension of the point and how it is that energy has become something we follow and make ourselves subject to, thus we in fact abdicate our directive authority and become slaves to energy, to mental concepts of ‘positive’ and ‘negative’ which we then allow to determine our worth, our value, while we completely disregard our value as LIFE.

Now – the bipolar nature of this has one interesting practical implication: You can’t have one polarity without the other.

So while we are busy perpetuating ‘positive’ aspects of our mental-ity, be it through bringing up memories that make us feel good, or make us feel righteous, or make us feel like we are a good person or a valuable/worthy person, we are in fact busy suppressing and denying all the ‘negative’ of ourselves, all the things we don’t wanna see and acknowledge as existent within ourselves because then we would have to feel ‘bad’ and ‘unworthy’.

And the more we try to enhance the ‘positive’ side of our mental reality, the more we give power to the ‘negative’ as well, which is why we’ll then experience outbursts of sudden anger or rage, often to the extent of physically acting-out those suppressed emotions that we seem unable to name or even look at, let alone understand how they got to exist within us in the first place.

So it’s interesting that we’ll use the ‘positive’ to suppress and deny the ‘negative’ – instead of realizing that we are within such mental-ity and within such existence through and as a mind merely busy avoiding the actuality of reality, the actuality of ourselves, our lives, our world.

The consequences of such energetic, bipolar existence are vast, but to name one I’d like to point out how we’ve for instance defined ‘peace’ through ‘war’. If one really have a look, there exists no actual peace in this world. Peace is but the absence of war, but war is somehow always there, always a possibility, always an option. And we can’t have peace without war.

But war without is a manifestation of the war within. It’s an energetic conflict based in fear and competition – both within and without. Fear and competition are again ‘experiences’ rooted in polarity, they are in fact based on mental constructs, yet we have lived them into beingness, we have lived them into reality to such an extent that it’s become ‘who we are’ as human beings, as humanity.

We are in pieces, we are not whole. And as long as we are in pieces, there can be no actual peace, a peace that is an expression of who we are in self-awareness as life, in the realization that any harm done to any part of life is harm that will sooner or later return back to self, thus any harm toward life is self-harm to begin with.

So here some considerations on the bipolar nature of energy, and how we have trapped ourselves within polarity constructs, trying to keep only the ‘positive’, not realizing that the way we’ve defined and determined things in our existence, the positive cannot exist without the negative.

There is another way – and at Desteni we challenge ourselves and each-other into re-defining our existence in a way that takes-out the mental polarity constructs we’ve been subjecting our existence to, and purify our words into living words that can stand the test of time and prove to be valid for all as best for all LIFE.

Relevant Vlogs I made:

Beyond Polarity - Self-Creation in a Bipolar World

Ego, Polarity & Power-Games in the Desteni of ManKind

For further context you may also want to read:
Day 262 - Desteni ReSearch & the Actuality of Reality
Day 263 - Desteni: Self-Support / Life-Support in Oneness and Equality
Day 264 - Desteni Process: Self as the Starting Point in the Journey to Life
Day 265 - Idealization of Change makes Walking the Change difficult
Day 266 - Idealization of Process makes Walking Process difficult

I suggest reading the Journey to Life blogs to see how within and through Writing in Self-Honesty one is able to get to know oneself as the mind and to face oneself as what one has become through the conditioned patterns of this preprogrammed consciousness of a consumerism/competition system, which, as we can see everywhere in the world, is rapidly devolving and reaching an unspeakable atrocity.

It is time to take self-responsibility and restore the directive will of life, within oneself for oneself, as well as equally for all, as one, as life, as equals.

Join us in the Journey to Life!

For support and participation visit the forums:
http://forum.desteni.org
http://equalmoney.org/forum/
http://desteniIprocess.com

Visit my Blog sites:
http://breath-expression.blogspot.com
http://equal-money-revolution.blogspot.com
http://EarthGlobalReview.wordpress.com

Read up on the MIND and CREATION:
http://creationsjourneytolife.blogspot.com
http://earthsjourneytolife.blogspot.com
http://heavensjourneytolife.blogspot.com
http://economistjourneytolife.blogspot.com
http://desteni.org/articles

@ eqafe for FREE:
* Quantum Mind Self Awareness - Step 1 and Step 2 <<< MP3 Downloads
* LifeReview - My Life as a Peace Activist <<< MP3 Download
* The Spirituality of the Snail <<< MP3 Download
* Spirituality Under the Microscope - Volume 2 <<< PDF Download
* How I was able to Hear the Desteni Message <<< PDF Download - Blog Compilation
* What the FAQ in an Equal Money System – Volume 2 <<< PDF Download
* Hell Spoof <<< MP3 Download - Music for Equality
* What makes me Starve in a World of Plenty <<< MP3 Download - Music for Equality

Check out the Equal Money System –
a solution that can be established in this lifetime to end the disaster of a profit driven system.

Check out the Desteni I Process Lite –
a FREE course that will assist humanity to end the disaster of a dysfunctional consciousness.

by Damian Ledesma

276: It’s a Bipolar World – We just Don’t Get it

ART by Kelly Posey

Continuing from
Day 274: Journey to Life through Daily Writing & Self-Honest Introspection
Day 275: The Power of Breath in Every Moment

Within observing elderly people, there’s one point that becomes very clear, and, if one really look at it one can see that it’s something that does not only pertain to elderly people but is something that we all do and engage in.

What I noticed – here in the example of elderly people, which makes it ‘easier’ o simply clearer to see – is that there is two main ‘moods’ or two kinds of ‘state of mind’ one would be in: one will either be in the present complaining about everything and anything that one is currently not content with (here in the example of the elderly it will be pain, discomfort, but also irrational stuff like blaming the nurses or the relatives or anything for that matter); or one will be in the past fishing out the best possible memories and the self-definitions that make them feel good about themselves (elderly people will often even act as if they are currently living in the past and will for a moment forget where they in fact are and what their state of being is).

The interesting thing about this, is that in none of the cases self-responsibility is realized. In the ‘negative’ energy there is a certain nastiness and specifically blame and spite coming up, while in the ‘positive’ energy there is a certain pride or happiness coming up associated to those parts/times in one’s life that one had attached ‘positive’ value to and thus one will ‘feel good’ and ‘feel positive’ because the switch is on the “plus”. When that imagination fades away and the person ‘wakes up’ to the actuality of reality, what will happen is that they will ‘fall’ into the ‘negative’ side of the energy and they’ll feel like nothing is right and everyone is to blame. Unfortunately within it all, no point of self-responsibility or self-creation is realized.

Now, given the way we exist in this world, this is ‘understandable’ when it comes to the elderly people. It is the common-sensical consequence/outflow of how we exist. What’s interesting is that the experience and the expression / the acting-out thereof will be ‘unique’, the pattern however is the same: it’s an energetic, bipolar manifestation.

Energetic – meaning: it will swing the person along with it; either in terms of ‘uplifting’ them (when one is fishing out the ‘good stuff’ from one’s life and suddenly starts telling the stories that make them ‘feel good’ and basically validate the personality/self-definition the person had adopted throughout their life), or in terms of ‘bringing them down’ (when suddenly the actuality of reality comes bashing in, either through pain or external stimuli that remind the person where they are and what state they are in).

And what is interesting to see, realize and understand here: is that the person always follows the energy, which means that the person is subject to the energy, thus ‘less than’ the energy, which is why the person has no directive authority, because that authority had been abdicated to energy and energy is then the force that pulls the person ‘up’ or ‘down’ –
and obviously what can be observed is how we tend to always try and remain in the ‘positive’, ‘uplifted’, ‘high’, when in fact that ‘high’ is not an actual state of being in self-awareness through a ‘man-know-thyself’ insight; that ‘high’ is always defined through mental concepts and is equally experienced and expressed as such.
Otherwise one would be able to at any given moment make a self-directive decision of what one would like to experience and express, but that is not so.

It takes great mental effort to remain in the ‘positive’, but sooner or later reality comes knocking at your door and you have to face your physical reality with everything that goes along with it. Granted, the whole spiritual new-age junkies have been doing quite a ‘good job’ at deluding themselves and creating all kinds of alternate realities that make one ‘feel good’…
but, come on, the actuality of reality is another, and it always comes with consequence. Funny how in the mind one can circus about as if there were no consequences, but this physical reality we all share is a reality of consequences, which makes the point of self-responsibility a vital point to understand if one would like to leave this world in self-honesty and full awareness of one’s existence on earth.

These some considerations on the energetic dimension of human existence.
The bipolar nature of this has one interesting practical implication: You can’t have one polarity without the other.
In the next blog post I will elaborate on this latter point further.

For further context you may also want to read:
Day 262 - Desteni ReSearch & the Actuality of Reality
Day 263 - Desteni: Self-Support / Life-Support in Oneness and Equality
Day 264 - Desteni Process: Self as the Starting Point in the Journey to Life
Day 265 - Idealization of Change makes Walking the Change difficult
Day 266 - Idealization of Process makes Walking Process difficult

I suggest reading the Journey to Life blogs to see how within and through Writing in Self-Honesty one is able to get to know oneself as the mind and to face oneself as what one has become through the conditioned patterns of this preprogrammed consciousness of a consumerism/competition system, which, as we can see everywhere in the world, is rapidly devolving and reaching an unspeakable atrocity.

It is time to take self-responsibility and restore the directive will of life, within oneself for oneself, as well as equally for all, as one, as life, as equals.

Join us in the Journey to Life!

For support and participation visit the forums:
http://forum.desteni.org
http://equalmoney.org/forum/
http://desteniIprocess.com

Visit my Blog sites:
http://breath-expression.blogspot.com
http://equal-money-revolution.blogspot.com
http://EarthGlobalReview.wordpress.com

Read up on the MIND and CREATION:
http://creationsjourneytolife.blogspot.com
http://earthsjourneytolife.blogspot.com
http://heavensjourneytolife.blogspot.com
http://economistjourneytolife.blogspot.com
http://desteni.org/articles

ART by Kim Amourette