378. Redefining ME | What is Perfection? 'Success' vs. 'Failure'?

Continuing from
Day 376. Redefining ME | From Alone to AllOne
Day 375 | Redefining ME | Self Commitment - to LIVE
Day 374 | Redefining ME | Self Religion continued: Living vs. Doing
Day 373 | Redefining ME | Self Religion continued: Feeling Good vs. Feeling Bad
Day 371 | Redefining ME – Debunking Self Religion

Day 363 | Love in My Life
Day 362 | Are we just Earthlings ???
Day 361 | An Earthling’s Journey to Life
Day 360 | My Life is Me - Equal Life Foundation
Day 359 | My Life is Me
Day 358 | Who is the Self within Self-Interest
Day 357 | Is Consciousness All I Can Be?
Day 356 | Self Commitment - Stopping the Negativity in My Life
Day 355 | Misfit > Transfit > Earthling > LIFE : A New Destiny is Possible
Day 354 | The Nastiness of the Misfit
Day 352 | My Life Journey from Misfit to Earthling
Day 351 | “My Life” - The Ignorance of the Misfit

Day 350 | Beliefs & Self-Definitions in relation to „My Life“
Day 349 | Self Commitment - Responsibility for „My Life“ & Responsibility for Life as a Whole
Day 348 | Self Commitment - "My Life"
Day 347 | Self Commitment & Desteni I Process




It’s interesting that within this word and the definition of Perfection one can see clearly the polarity framework of how we are conditioned to live words:

Perfection within how we’ve defined it in the current/system/consciousness is connected both to a negative charge and to a positive charge.
The positive charge being the point of desiring perfection (interestingly enough we tend to project our expectations for perfection onto others/our world rather than exploring self-perfection);
And the negative charge being the point of fearing perfection, which is like a twisted self-sabotage tactic of the mind: 

I realized that what is in fact feared is not perfection per se, but the physical practical effort that it takes to get there, to walk the steps that are required step-by-step until the perfection is accumulated through the number of breaths and actions required to in fact create a point of perfection. 

Another aspect one reacts to with fear can be the responsibility that comes with perfection: because to live self-perfection one has to empower oneself, by becoming in self-honesty the directive authority within/of oneself in every moment; with this power comes responsibility, as one can no longer deny or ignore that which is unacceptable, that which is not supporting life, that which is a delusion/illusion/deception/dishonesty.



The problem, as one can see, within the definition of perfection as defined within the current system/consciousness, is that it is not practical: we all know how it is to project ideas and dreams of ‘ideal’ conditions – this then being our definition of Perfection, consequently Perfection will always seem ‘so far away’, so out there, just not here, unreachable… And so we tend to accept ‘failure’ and go into depression or feelings of inferiority, or one will deny/suppress that negative experience by superimposing positive states-of-mind / positivity / love & light and other mental-projections to make oneself feel-better/look-better, which by definition is delusional.


So within seeing this problem, one can also already see the solution – How to redefine perfection to be practical, livable, applicable:

Walking self-perfection in every here-moment, with every breath, instead of projecting it ‘out there’ and making it seem ‘so big’ that it looks ‘unachievable’. 

This would mean that one has looked into the practical steps and actions/application that is required in order to perfect oneself within a particular point, and one has committed oneself to walk step-by-step, breath-by-breath, applying oneself in every moment, thus living self-perfection in every moment.

So within that, perfection / self-perfection is no longer idealized and projected, nor is it an end-goal that one has to ‘attain’/ ‘achieve’ / ‘accomplish’; but is something practical and applicable:
Giving it your all in every moment, wouldn’t that be the highest level of self-perfection and self-accomplishment a human being is able to live?


It is simplistic, yet it is not easy –
because we are so used to being distracted in our minds with thoughts and emotional/feeling reactions that we tend to have difficulty dedicating ourselves to a single moment, in the context of a task or a project.
And yet – being fully here in self-awareness as self-directive authority in every moment of breath: wouldn’t that be a living example of self-perfection at its utmost?


Therefore, I within this re-commit myself to assisting and supporting myself to ‘remain here’ in every moment, to be here in awareness, and to no longer allow myself to be distracted or (self-)sabotaged by the automated thoughts or emotional/feeling reactions that automatically come-up in the mind as conditioned.

Already the application of daily writing has been a great support point in terms of being here and directing a point/a task without allowing distractions in the mind. I would definitely suggest the process of writing yourself to freedom, and to see more examples of this I’d suggest checking out the Journey To Life group where people from all around the world post their writings daily.




Some more self-support blogs on this point:
“Perfection” - by Adam Closs
and
“How to Look and Feel your Best” - by Malin Gunilla




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Day 82: Deconstructing Characters – The Perfectionist

ART by Sylvie Jacobs

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to construct a character as ‘the perfectionist’ – wherein I would get really annoyed and irritated when others would seemingly not live up to my expectations of ‘perfection’ –

not realizing that I was in fact only creating ‘rules’ of perfection based on my own ‘liking’, thus merely constructing systems that would promise to make my existence more ‘satisfying’ within and as self-interest, instead of living SELF-perfection as a practical application of who I am from the starting-point of self-honesty.

I forgive myself that I haven’t allowed myself to see, realize and understand that pursuing perfectionism is in fact self-dishonesty, because that perfectionism is based on bipolar value-judgments and not on self-honesty as the path of getting to know oneself and walking SELF-perfection, not through ‘rules’ but through common sense and self-honesty.

I forgive myself that I haven’t allowed myself to see how irritated and frustrated I would get when something would not go according to my plan of perfectionism – which is a clear indication that I used perfectionism as a ‘value’ of ‘more’/’superior’, and when that wouldn’t succeed I would inevitably go into an experience of ‘less’/’inferior’:

This polarity design is a clear indication that what I was applying as ‘perfectionism’ was merely a construct, a system, and not a living application of SELF in equality and oneness.

I forgive myself that I haven’t allowed myself to see, realize and understand that the character I created as ‘the perfectionist’ has in fact been trapped within that polarity of ‘ups’ and ‘downs’ based on the extent to which I’d be able (or not) to pursue that ‘perfectionism’ –

and thus I was making myself subject to my own ‘rules’ and expectations, instead of living SELF-perfection in self-honesty, not in polarity but in equality and oneness.

I forgive myself that I haven’t allowed myself to see, realize and understand that through existing as such character/personality, I equally kept anyone that ‘agreed’ to ‘validate’ my personality in the same trap, whether that be perceived and accepted ‘inferiority’ or ‘superiority’.

I commit myself to investigating all ways within which I have pursued ‘perfectionism’, so that I may recognize the traps of ‘positive’ and ‘negative’ polarity that I subjected myself to, and re-align any point to that of SELF-perfection in self-honesty – so that I may walk an actual evolution of myself as a living application based on the value of life, and not based on ‘values’ of the system that are all in essence based on the polarity of ‘superiority’/’inferiority’.

I commit myself to stopping my irritation and frustration every time it gets triggered, and to take that moment as a chance to see, realize and understand what expectations I had, what value-judgments I subjected myself to, and what the opposite polarity would be that would ‘promise’ to give me ‘satisfaction’ as opposed to irritation and frustration –

so that I may see and realize that both polarities are an illusion based on mental constructs of the world consciousness, and that I am in fact able to in self-honesty look at the point for what it is and re-align myself in relation to that point so as to walk it within SELF-perfection and set myself free from the trap of polarity that I had created.

Within this I commit myself to flagging the situations within which the character of ‘the perfectionist’ rules, to stop my reign of self-delusion and get myself back to the humbleness of self-honesty.

I commit myself to walking the realization that SELF-perfection is something self can only walk breath by breath, without any rules but the principle of equality and oneness in self-honesty –

and that therefore it is not about being/becoming ‘better’ or ‘worse’, ‘superior’ or ‘inferior’, but about walking the improvement of myself in self-honesty without comparison, competition, or judgment.

I commit myself to showing that perfectionism as defined in this world is a character as personality that supports not life, but the mind of ‘superiority’ and ‘inferiority’ and thus separation.

I commit myself to showing how we have separated ourselves from ourselves through the mental, wherein we exist in constant comparison and competition, always in value-judgments of ‘more than’/’less than’, ‘superior’/’inferior’, ‘strong’/’weak’ etc. –

and that unless we give this polarity design up and stop ourselves from being subject to polarity in all ways, we do not stand a chance of becoming equal to life as directive-principle, because we’ll always be driven from the inside-out by such polarities like puppets on strings.

I commit myself to sharing the common sense that it’s gonna take time and dedication to purify ourselves in self-honesty, because our entire existence is being driven by this invisible system within and without to which we’ve given the authority to drive us and make our decisions for us –

and that therefore the first step towards setting ourselves as life free, is to make the decision to in self-honesty investigate and forgive all points of fear, desire, control, ideas of power, pretense, self-image etc (all polarity desig) that we have accepted and allowed to define and determine who we are and how we are, who we can be and what we can do.

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