566 | Healing our Oneness through Equality

Some more points came up in relation to my previous post 565 | What on Earth are we Creating?  – where I discussed the question “What am I creating?” and why this is the most important question you can ask yourself at any moment.  

I also discussed how we are collectively creating our world and reality, and this is the context that brought up the point of equality, and I wanted to share a bit more on this.

Interestingly enough, this point of equality – an absolute Key, and I will discuss why – pertains not only to our existence as a world, as a collective; but also to our existence as individuals.

From my previous post:

“…And this is how then we create and how we’ve created this world, based off of ego, fear, separation – trapped in a system of superiority/inferiority as the oneness of consciousness; where the equality of life’s value isn’t existent, isn’t realized. Awareness on the other hand is where life’s value is realized and thus we begin to nurture and substantiate our life-awareness, our interdependence, our togetherness on this one earth as living beings.”

I am sure we can all relate to our world/reality as a polarity system when we look at the superiority/inferiority construct – this I consider to be one of the main polarities that construct our world and unified consciousness, if not the main polarization. 

Other polarizations we can see within fear/desire, love/hate, win/lose, haves/have-nots, domination/submission, etc.

It’s all about power and control – and ultimately abuse and exploitation.

Now this is where I see equality as the Key. For while these ‘games’ are games of the mental realm, with ‘values’ as man-defined; we have made these ‘false gods’ real and have built upon such ‘values’ a world system that serves only the pro-fit few, all the while the true value of life as life is being disregarded and the right to life is no longer unalienable.

Now equality would be where these skewed old systems and patterns are changed into something that works for all, into something that ensures the right to life for all, and that opens all knowledge to all, allowing for humanity to come together, grow together, and truly uplift itself from its misery and live, create, innovate – true evolution.

But as we’ve seen in the previous post, all things start with self. There can be no love and no peace in our world so long as the individual mind of the human harbors fear, hatred, jealousy, and all the forms of separation we have come to accept as ‘normal’, as ‘human nature’.

This is why then the quality of equality is a Key to SELF realization to begin with.

You may now wonder, how does this work – equality within self?

Let’s have a look.

In my previous post I wrote that

“in asking oneself the question What am I creating, one in essence gives oneself access into self-directive awareness. For if I am busy creating a mood, a limitation, a personality, an ego, then – upon seeing and realizing this – I have the opportunity to forgive and release myself from the limitation and to instead move myself toward expressing my full potential, living the best version of myself that I can be and become at any given moment.”

This also opens up the question about how it is that we do not always, naturally, express ourselves to our utmost potential, how it is that we do not naturally engage with awareness in every moment, but instead tend to get caught up in all kinds of mental and emotional conundrums…

If you can relate to this, and if you are also already self aware where you’re able to recognize things like fear or inner resistance, self-talk and self-judgment, things that you do not want to look at or deal with within yourself or your life… This is where we’re missing our equality.

For how can there be things within myself that I fear, or that I judge, or that I dream of yet believe I can never reach – and here you can see the constructs of inferiority/superiority existing within a single mind – when all the while these things coming up within me already indicates they ARE me. Isn’t it utterly non-sense to fear oneself or judge oneself or talk oneself down within one’s own mind?

Indeed this indicates the extent of our separation, our separation from ourselves as life, as our own source. And this is where equality is key. For if I can look at everything within myself without judgment, without fear, without reaction, if I can see every point for what it is, within this understanding myself/my mind and giving it also direction – resolving for instance inner conflict by using the mind as the tool that it is, to think critically and to broaden our horizons, deepening our understanding, our compassion, and thus also our ability to change, to align, to adjust and direct, into solutions that are best-for-life.

So this is the point that I wanted to share for this blog – some practical consideration on equality as the key to the totality of reality, the key to access the whole picture and place oneself in a position of self directive principle, where one is able to will change, on the grounds of life awareness.

Healing our Oneness through Equality – is about healing ourselves individually (each body and mind a Oneness, that can be equalized into Awareness, and thus One Being Equal within itself) AND it’s about healing the Oneness that is our World, this reality (by truly and practically honoring and nurturing the Value of Life in all living things).

“Everything in this world exists as relationships. In all our relationships throughout a life time, the one point we have control over is ourselves. Changing who self is in relation to everything else, making a difference in the small moments through being the best I can be as what’s best for life – is how we can effect a change in the world around us; not by force, but by resonating awareness, opening up solutions, sharing best-for-life practicality, and showing that best-for-all is in fact best for all. This is the highest enlightenment human consciousness can reach – must reach, if we are ever to free ourselves from the polarity matrix we have accepted and allowed as our reality where war is peace and live is evil as we have manifested hell on earth.”

But we can have heaven on earth if we nurture our awareness of life and realize that ‘best for life’ is possible, just like ‘win-win’ is possible – equality is the key. Equality is not about sameness, it’s about value realization, value creation – it’s about the real value that we as humanity seem to have lost.

So let’s support ourselves and each other and our world equally to discover and uncover and substantiate life’s full potential – we can re-create our world to be ‘best for life’, instead of placing profit before life.

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548 | What keeps you from embracing yourself and living fully?

Expanding from my previous posts

544 | Embrace yourself, empower yourself 

545 | Embrace yourself, empower yourself - Part 2 

546 | F.E.A.R. – Fail Early And Responsibly 

547 | F.E.A.R. – Fail Early And Responsibly - Part 2

I wanted to share some self forgiveness to assist in deconstructing the patterns and systems that keep us from embracing ourselves and living fully. 

Obviously this has been a longer and deeper process for me – initially I had found thoughts and beliefs pertaining to how I’d see myself and my life as ‘failure’, while later on, as I went deeper, I found an entire ‘embodiment’ of the failure-construct within myself which was manifesting into and as a form of perception: how I would see myself and my life, how I would look at myself and my life – and I realized that there were many things that I hadn’t even considered as possible or as option for myself and my life, due to the very limitations of my own perception,

I am sharing the following self forgiveness in the hope that it may serve as inspiration for anyone reading this. So if in any way you’ve had in your life thoughts or experiences of ‘failure’ – this is for you.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to see myself as failure.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to look at myself as failure.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to hold on to moments of failure and to focus on those/such moments of failure, so much so that I’ve defined myself within that and made it ‘mine’.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to, throughout my life, when recognizing a moment or point of failure, judge it and judge myself, within this perpetuating the failure and giving it substance, instead of utilizing realizations of failure constructively, to learn from it and move beyond it, to grow and expand.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to judge myself as failure whenever my participation/expression did not meet the best I could be in that moment.

Within this I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to (instead of slowing down and leading myself within my reality constructively) create projections as expectations or desires as a ‘standard’ to be fulfilled or attained or achieved for me to not ‘feel like’ a failure.

So within this, I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to trap myself in ‘morality’, a mental polarity of ‘success and failure’, where I have existed in doubt and uncertainty, in a form of inferiority, not yet fully living and expressing self leadership, not yet leading myself to my full potential in every moment.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to struggle within and against myself in a mental realm of polarities.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to make an emotional and judgmental reaction out of failure – a reaction which had become the way that I saw myself and my life, within this limiting myself and my life to be exactly that: a ‘failure’, through my own acceptance and allowance, through how I myself had related to moments of failure.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to suffer – ‘myself’ being my body and being, who I really am as life; that self of life was suffering, it was hurting and starving, because I didn’t take care of it, I didn’t take care of myself, I had not allowed myself to live constructively.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to resist the life in me – to fear change, to ever need a ‘comfort zone’, to suppress my full expression, my full potential, in a mode of ‘justifying failure’ and ‘fighting for my limitations’.

I forgive myself that I hadn’t allowed myself to see, realize and understand that ‘failure’ is integrated into the world system as such, and that everybody is fighting their own struggle to ‘make it’, but really – neither submitting to ‘failure’ in negativity nor ‘flying high’ through positive thinking is pragmatic – as in both cases you play the game. And clearly: this polarity game must stop for real self empowerment to emerge.

So how did I go about after such realizations? I defined my values and principles, I recognized my value and potential as life, and I decided to redefine success to not be of a polarity system but of real self-willed evolution in awareness. I refuse to see myself as failure. I refuse to accept failure as an option. This ‘image’ I have had of my life as ‘failure’ has a history, its own story, but in the end it’s just that: an image, a perception, a belief. Don’t let it be an embodied consciousness, a self-fulfilling prophecy. Life is so much more. I am so much more. We are so much more. Finding the decency of self empowerment, really, that’s the best gift each one can give to themselves, and as we give it to ourselves we spark it in others.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to connect the word ‘failure’ to fear.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to fear failure.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to fear being seen as failure.

Yet I am the one accepting this ‘image’, regardless where it comes from.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to see myself as ‘failure’, and to pity myself and to get angry and to feel powerless and helpless, all the while I am the one allowing this/such ‘image’ of ‘me’ to exist within me, in my mind and body, as fear, as self-definition, as attitude toward life/living – it is atrocious – and only when I stop this ‘crime against life’ that is in me, as me, only when we stop valuing ourselves and each-other in means that are mean – will we stop the atrocities of humanity on earth.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to keep parts of myself suppressed, denied, or in any way in separation from my awareness, from ME HERE.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to resist bringing all of me HERE to take responsibility for and lead/direct as in: self-create.

Within this I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to have judged or feared or resented and loathed parts of myself –either because they ‘cause’ a certain experience of myself or because they ‘validate’ certain negative/inferior self-definitions that I had accepted.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to have thoughts and beliefs about ‘who I am’ and what I ‘can do’ and ‘cannot do’ – and in fact there is much we cannot even SEE ourselves doing/being due to the VEILS of our accepted self-definitions – it is our own self-image that (through our acceptance and allowance) limits our ability to grow, expand, and be everything we can be!

Here I see the separation and also the ‘morality trap’ that exists within and as the mind as consciousness –where we can use ‘logic’ to in-form our justifications and excuses and make them sound ‘good’. Unfortunately such petty mechanisms are only ‘valid’ within the bounds of the fuzzy logic used to ‘make sense’ of our world in self-interest as ego in-fear, a ‘logic’ that is self made and made up to defend our limitations in our own MIND.

I forgive myself that I hadn’t allowed myself to see and realize how we human beings walk around together in this world yet each of us separated into and as a bubble, a MIND SYSTEM that exists in fact in-fear, and thus inferior to the full life potential that each one can be.

So instead of seeing self-honesty and reality for what it is, we interpret the world and ourselves through ‘morality’ in the mind – all those judgments of right and wrong / good and bad (because I mean, if we really had clear judgment about what’s right and wrong / good and bad then this world and our existence here would be an entirely different story!), all those moments where we inferiorize or superiorize ourselves and others in our minds, while we fail to see our responsibility in the bigger picture or even to realize how we abdicate our power to systems of separation and devaluation, and that is in itself EVIL – because we abdicate our right to life and turn our back at the value of LIFE in fact.

I forgive myself that I hadn’t allowed myself to see that EVIL is the opposite of LIVE, and that I haven’t yet fully questioned and explored what it means to LIVE.

If we would truly LIVE, if we were LIFE, wouldn’t we then create LIFE as our world, our existence in this reality?

Yet if we look at what we’ve been creating as humanity on earth, clearly it is the opposite of LIVE, it is literally evil, a crime against life: this is the world, the existence we have created.

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to be evil and exist as evil, where I have applied the ‘evil of the world out there’ within and toward my own mind, within and toward myself –

through accepted self-definitions, through accepted inferiority and through allowing myself to feel and be disempowered. Where I had often wanted to give up in relation to ‘how things are’ or ‘who I am’ as what I have become and how I was experiencing myself.

So that’s when I realized that I have to embrace myself, I have to embrace all of me. I had to LOOK at and look INTO everything that was coming up inside me, everything that existed ‘as me’ – to see, realize and understand how it came to be, how I’d been ‘to it’ in unawareness, what the consequences have been, how I have been part in its creation/evolution, and how I can embrace that ‘part of me’ (be it an emotion or mood, a belief or thought pattern, a self-definition or the general ‘view at life’ that each one has) and take RESPONSE-ABILITY for it as myself.

Many talk about STANDING UP. In the world system, this has been misinterpreted and misused as ‘rebelling’ –though that has had its ‘merit’ too throughout the history of human civilization–

when in fact Standing Up implies that we first  have to stand equal to and one with the deepest ground of our ‘souls’ deep deep down inside and purify our existence, embrace the demons, understand our mind’s creation, see the correction/transformation required, and step in as Creators to live the change/correction into beingness, into creation, into reality. As within, so without – as above, so below.

We each exist both within and without; we are the above and the below.

I do hope this illustrates the responsibility we bear as human beings, toward ourself in the first place, and life as a whole.

I mean, things like decency, respect, honor, care and support – these things cannot infuse into our world systems unless they are birthed from within ourselves, individually and together.

I’m up for it and I’m pretty excited to live in these fascinating times where so much more is possible and where our future depends on our awareness and living application more than ever before – depends on our real nature to be GOOD, to BE LIFE, to LIVE and let LIVE, to create LIFE and THRIVE…

So what will it be?

You decide, as does each ONE – Be The One for YOU.

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