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| ART by Kelly Posey |
...In the process of
investigating the main beliefs that determine my accepted self-definitions –
self-definitions that were formed in my process of ‘education’ and ‘personality
development’ and that are not equal to life as self-worth and self-acceptance –
I came to see and realize that most such beliefs are based on a perception of
NEED, which in turn is based in a perception of LACK.
...Here one is able to
see the polarity within such perception constructs, since without a perception
of LACK the perception of NEED would not have emerged.
...What is further
interesting to note here is that such constructs are MENTAL in nature, meaning:
they are based on belief/thinking and they emerge from a parenting/education
system that is rooted in COMPARISON which is in essence competition which is in
essence the idea that I NEED to get/have/be MORE in order to be
fulfilled/accomplished/accepted/appreciated/worthy.
I am continuing in this context from:
Day 387 | Implications of Mental-I-ties – Lack & Need vs. Self-Worth & The Value of Life
Day 386 | EVERYTHING you Think & BeLIEve is a LIE. Stop - and Open your ‘I’ to LIFE
Day 385 | EVERYTHING you Think & BeLIEve is a LIE
Day 384 | Self-Worth & The Value of Life
Day 383 | Redefining ME | What’s Love & Happiness Worth?
Day 381 | Redefining ME | Debunking Self Religion - I Am what I beLIEve? (part2)
Day 380 | Redefining ME | Debunking Self Religion - I Am what I beLIEve?
So – looking into the main belief in relation to NEEDS
that I have come to BELIEVE within and about myself, I can see some pretty
curious shit, for example:
I need something / someone to make me feel valuable.
I need something / someone to appreciate me.
I need something / someone to show me that I am
worthy.
I need something / someone to give me and my life
meaning and purpose.
I need to be accepted and loved.
I need to be liked by others otherwise I cannot feel
good about myself.
I need to meet the expectations of society/parents/the
world otherwise I cannot feel accomplished and fulfilled.
I need others to acknowledge my work/contribution
otherwise I cannot feel meaningful and important in life.
Now –
before I move on to deconstructing these/such beliefs,
there is something I’d like to point out here, which is the operative word:
FEEL.
And what is interesting about it, if one have a look
at the above statements, is how the FEELING is subject to external stimuli and
triggers – and therefore, one should in fact question whether what one FEEL is
real!
I mean, the way we feel about ourselves determines and
defines EVERYTHING in our lives – in fact it defines what we are and aren’t
able to do and be, it defines how we will experience ourselves, it defines who
we will be with others and to what extent we will push ourselves beyond our
accepted limitations or not. So – would that not in fact be MIND CONTROL from
the inside out?
How does a FEELING or EMOTION emerge? How is it
created? What does it consist of? No one seems to know, let alone investigate
these questions for real, not even parents! Isn’t this bizarre?!
So – I’d suggest studying the Desteni material where
such questions are investigated in-depth (see links at the bottom).
In the meantime, I continue here with deconstructing the
above statements/beliefs, based on the realization (which one will be able to
see within the following) that a NEED does not exist without its
opposite-polarity which is the perception of LACK:
“I NEED something / someone to make me feel valuable.”
--- The implication that is tacitly accepted here is
that I LACK value, and that I myself am not valuable before another makes me
FEEL valuable.
“I NEED something / someone to appreciate me.”
--- The implication that is tacitly accepted here is
that I do not appreciate myself or that me appreciating myself is not enough, I
must get this appreciation from outside of myself, otherwise I cannot FEEL
appreciated.
“I NEED something / someone to show me that I am
worthy.”
--- The implication that is tacitly accepted here is
that I do not see/accept myself as worthy, but require another to make me FEEL
worthy; but, would that be actually real, if I within myself do not accept
self-worth as myself?!
“I NEED something / someone to give me and my life
meaning and purpose.”
--- The implication that is tacitly accepted here is
that I/my life LACKS meaning and purpose, and that such meaning/purpose must
be given to me from outside of myself –
And have a look how many people fall for religions and
spirituality because that gives them meaning, but where is the meaning and
purpose of LIFE within all that?! And how come one does not take
self-responsibility to give oneself and one’s life a meaning and a purpose that
truly serves LIFE and who one really is?!
(Please see/watch Awakening to Purpose!)
“I NEED to be accepted and loved.”
--- The implication that is tacitly accepted here is
that I feel that I LACK acceptance and love, and that I cannot accept myself or
love myself unless acceptance and love is given to me by someone/something outside
of myself –
And here again, how many people spend so much money on
gurus and groups that make them FEEL accepted and loved, when in essence people
cannot / do not learn practical self-acceptance and self-love, and so we set
ourselves onto this endless quest for love and acceptance, moving further and further
from ourselves in the beLIEf that we will/must find something/someone that will
make us FEEL accepted and FEEL loved. We have been duped!
“I NEED to be liked by others otherwise I cannot feel
good about myself.”
--- The implication that is tacitly accepted here is
that I LACK goodness and I LACK the feeling of ‘being good’ and that I am
subject to and dependent upon OTHERS to MAKE ME FEEL GOOD about myself –
But what does that say about oneself?!
“I NEED to meet the expectations of
society/parents/the world otherwise I cannot feel accomplished and fulfilled.”
--- The implication that is tacitly accepted here is
that accomplishment and fulfillment is something that comes through fulfilling
expectations imposed onto oneself from the outside, which are the laws and
norms of in fact CONSUMERISM and the whole COMPETITION system that goes with
it; and that unless I meet the ‘standards’ of the system, I probably LACK
something within myself, and then I FEEL like I’m not good enough or am not
fulfilled or not accomplished –
But do we ever ask ourselves what real
self-accomplishment and self-fulfillment is/can be?!
“I NEED others to acknowledge my work/contribution
otherwise I cannot feel meaningful and important in life.”
--- The implication that is tacitly accepted here is
that I NEED to FEEL meaningful and important otherwise I FEEL that I LACK
something, and unless OTHERS acknowledge what I do I cannot FEEL meaningful and
important –
But do we ever consider living in a way that we
ourselves are able to acknowledge and appreciate our own practical-living, our
own development processes, our own expression and expansion in self-honesty?
No
– because we do not even know or understand ourselves; we are so brainwashed through
systems of education/parenting – and have a look, such systems are also based
in polarity: the polarity of REWARD and PUNISHMENT, which is what creates a
human being that is able to be controlled, manipulated and directed like
trigger-robots through a simple thing like FEELINGS (and have a look at how advertisement
work for instance, or even religions) without even understanding or
investigating what feeling-/emotional-responses are and how they are created!
…to be continued
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