...So when I looked into the main beliefs in relation to NEEDS that I have come to BELIEVE within and about myself, I could see some pretty curious shit, which I started deconstructing in my previous blog post.
...I am certain that most people have such/similar beliefs and experiences based on the perception of LACK and NEED that we come to accept when we exist in COMPARISON and COMPETITION for VALUE – which is something deeply ingrained into/as ‘human nature’, and this one can see if one have a look at our education/parenting systems and in essence the entire system of consumerism and profit.
In the previous post I walked the self-forgiveness on each point and here I continue with self-corrective commitment statements – to share some practical points of self-support for whomever is willing to take self-responsibility and free oneself from mental constructs that only keep us limited and submissive to a system within and without that does not support us as life.
For context please read:
Day 389 | Implications of Mental-I-ties – 'Lack' & 'Need' vs. Self-Worth & The Value of Life (Part3)
Day 388 | Implications of Mental-I-ties – 'Lack' & 'Need' vs. Self-Worth & The Value of Life (Part2)
Day 387 | Implications of Mental-I-ties – Lack & Need vs. Self-Worth & The Value of Life
For further context see:
Day 386 | EVERYTHING you Think & BeLIEve is a LIE. Stop - and Open your ‘I’ to LIFE
Day 385 | EVERYTHING you Think & BeLIEve is a LIE
Day 384 | Self-Worth & The Value of Life
Day 383 | Redefining ME | What’s Love & Happiness Worth?
Day 381 | Redefining ME | Debunking Self Religion - I Am what I beLIEve? (part2)
Day 380 | Redefining ME | Debunking Self Religion - I Am what I beLIEve?
“I NEED something / someone to make me feel valuable.”
--- The implication that is tacitly accepted here is that I LACK value, and that I myself am not valuable before another makes me FEEL valuable.
I see and realize that by thinking and believing that I need something / someone to make me feel valuable, I am tacitly implying and accepting that I lack value, and that I myself cannot be valuable unless something/someone makes me FEEL valuable.
Therefore I commit myself to –whenever the feeling/emotion or thought arises within me that “I am not valuable” or “I NEED something / someone to make me feel valuable”- stop and take a breath, bring myself back here to reality, and re-instate my realization and decision that I will no longer accept or allow myself to exist within perceptions of Lack and Need, as I realize that such perceptions are mental constructs that emerge from a system wherein we are taught “values” that do not support us and our value as life.
I commit myself to no longer accept or allow a definition of ‘value’ that is separate from life/living, as I realize that within that I am separating the definition of value from me and my life and following “value” as defined in this consumerism world system eg. as it is served on TV and through media as well as our education/parenting systems based on ‘reward’ and ‘punishment’.
I commit myself to investigate and deconstruct any and all points wherein I exist in a state of needing/seeking ‘rewards’ or ‘value’, thinking and believing that when I receive ‘rewards’ my value enhances – so that I may once and for all let go of such belief (and the ‘need’ that emerges from it) and value my life as myself, realizing that self-worth is here, as I am here.
“I NEED something / someone to appreciate me.”
--- The implication that is tacitly accepted here is that I do not appreciate myself or that me appreciating myself is not enough, I must get this appreciation from outside of myself, otherwise I cannot FEEL appreciated.
I commit myself to assist and support myself in letting go of the belief / perception / feeling that I need something / someone to appreciate me, as I realize that I am within that tacitly implying and accepting that I cannot appreciate myself or that me appreciating myself is not enough and that I must get this appreciation from outside of myself, otherwise I cannot FEEL appreciated.
Within this thus I commit myself to assist and support myself in letting go of the ‘need’ for something / someone to appreciate me, as I realize that I’d be defining appreciation as a “value” to be found / attained / given to me from something/someone separate from myself.
I realize that I am able to redefine the word ‘appreciation’ as me appreciating me, based on who I am and how I live and participate in my world –
thus I commit myself to assist and support myself in living the best version of ‘me’ in every moment with every breath, the best version of me being such that the value of life as who I am is honored and that I support myself as life =
for example stopping myself from following the idea/belief/need to be/feel appreciated whenever such conditioned idea/belief/need arise within me;
stopping the idea/belief/perception of ‘inferiority’ whenever something of that kind arise within me in terms of thoughts and feelings/emotions;
stopping the idea/perception/belief that I am not enough or not good enough, and focusing on the practicality of this physical reality wherein I can in fact measure and assess my application and participation and make sure that I am doing what I am able to do in every breath to support myself and participate in my reality with dignity and respect, honoring life as myself and others.
“I NEED something / someone to show me that I am worthy.”
--- The implication that is tacitly accepted here is that I do not see/accept myself as worthy, but require another to make me FEEL worthy; but, would that be actually real, if I within myself do not accept self-worth as myself?!
I see and realize that by thinking and believing that I need something/someone to show me that I am worthy and that I require something/someone to make me FEEL worthy, I am tacitly implying and accepting that I am not worthy.
I also realize that when ‘worth’ is ‘given’ to me from outside of myself, making me FEEL ‘worthy’ = that this is not at all real worth and value, but merely a Feeling that in fact compromises my self-worth and my ability to establish self-worth and live in self-worth.
I commit myself to no longer make myself subject to and dependent on something/something to make me FEEL something, like for example ‘worthy’ and ‘valuable’.
Therefore I re-define self-worth to be equal to the value of life in the context of practical living = thus equal to me living and participating in my world as an equal of life –
thus self-worth is who I am as life.
“I NEED something / someone to give me and my life meaning and purpose.”
--- The implication that is tacitly accepted here is that I/my life LACKS meaning and no purpose, and that such meaning/purpose must be given to me from outside of myself –
And have a look how many people fall for religions and spirituality because that gives them meaning, but where is the meaning and purpose of LIFE within all that?! And how come one does not take self-responsibility to give oneself and one’s life a meaning and a purpose that truly serves LIFE and who one really is?!
I see and realize that by thinking and believing that I need something/someone to give me and my life meaning and purpose, I am tacitly implying and accepting that I/my life LACKS meaning and purpose and that I NEED to seek purpose and meaning outside of myself.
I therefore make the decision to give myself a purpose/meaning that is in fact worthy of life = a purpose that serves me as life, which is to assist and support myself in letting go of any and all mental constructs that limit my expression as life and keep me existing in inferiority or fear, as less than who I really am and can be;
I make the decision to give me and my life, this one life, the purpose and meaning of walking myself out of the conditioned consciousness I have become – a consciousness that I formed in unawareness, through acceptance and allowance, under the influence of a system that does not support life –
and I commit myself to assist and support myself in ‘birthing myself as life’, equal to dignity, freedom and respect; restoring and establishing the value of life starting with myself and expanding to my world/reality, so that I may be a building block in manifesting a world/system that in fact supports life – all life equally.
“I NEED to be accepted and loved.”
--- The implication that is tacitly accepted here is that I feel that I LACK acceptance and love, and that I cannot accept myself or love myself unless acceptance and love is given to me by someone/something outside of myself –
And here again, how many people spend so much money on gurus and groups that make them FEEL accepted and loved, when in essence people cannot / do not learn practical self-acceptance and self-love, and so we set ourselves onto this endless quest for love and acceptance, moving further and further from ourselves in the beLIEf that we will/must find something/someone that will make us FEEL accepted and FEEL loved. We have been duped!
I see and realize that by thinking and believing that I need something/someone to accept me and love me so that I can FEEL loved and accepted, I am tacitly implying and accepting that I cannot accept myself or love myself unless acceptance and love is given to me by someone/something outside of myself.
I see and realize that human beings in fact ‘suffer’ from lack of love and acceptance because we do not learn to give it to ourselves and each-other equally, we do not learn to LIVE love and acceptance as who we are, as life, but instead we are indoctrinated by and into a value-system of separation, comparison, competition, and so we end up on this endless quest for love and acceptance, one way or another, moving further and further from ourselves in the beLIEf that we will/must find something/someone that will make us FEEL accepted and FEEL loved.
Therefore I commit myself to assist and support myself in learning how to accept myself and love myself practically and for-real – which is by living self-support and willing myself with every breath to move beyond the limitations of the conditioned consciousness I have become that only exists in constructs of ‘inferiority’ and ‘superiority’ based on mental ideas of ‘value’, and to embrace myself in acceptance of the value of life as who I really am; to within this assist and support myself to practically, physically, interactively, expand and express who I really am as an equal of life.
“I NEED to be liked by others otherwise I cannot feel good about myself.”
--- The implication that is tacitly accepted here is that I LACK goodness and I LACK the feeling of ‘being good’ and that I am subject to and dependent upon OTHERS to MAKE ME FEEL GOOD about myself –
But what does that say about oneself?!
I see and realize that by thinking and believing that I need to be liked by others otherwise I cannot feel good about myself, I am tacitly implying and accepting that I LACK goodness and that I am subject to and dependent on something/someone to MAKE ME FEEL GOOD about myself.
I see and realize that within that I have made myself subject to and dependent on ‘feeling good about myself’, which is equal to self-interest -
we can all see and observe what bizarre things people will do just to ‘feel good’ about themselves.
I therefore commit myself to no longer define ‘good’ and ‘goodness’ as a Feeling that must be given to me or that I must somehow get triggered, as I realize that such ‘goodness’ cannot be real as it is defined in separation from who I am and how I live in every moment with every breath.
I see that in this world ‘feeling good’ has become equal to abdicating self-responsibility, to hiding from the truth of oneself and of this world/reality, because if goodness really existed in this world/system, we would already be seeing and witnessing real actual change within ourselves and our world.
I within this commit myself to stop needing to ‘feel good’ and to instead assist and support myself in facing myself and my reality and to take self-responsibility for everything of myself and my reality.
“I NEED to meet the expectations of society/parents/the world otherwise I cannot feel accomplished and fulfilled.”
--- The implication that is tacitly accepted here is that accomplishment and fulfillment is something that comes through fulfilling expectations imposed onto oneself from the outside, which are the laws and norms of in fact CONSUMERISM and the whole COMPETITION system that goes with it; and that unless I meet the ‘standards’ of the system, I probably LACK something within myself, and then I FEEL like I’m not good enough or am not fulfilled or not accomplished –
But do we ever ask ourselves what real self-accomplishment and self-fulfillment is/can be?!
I see and realize that by thinking and believing that I need to meet the expectations of society/parents/the world otherwise I cannot feel accomplished and fulfilled, I am tacitly implying and accepting that accomplishment and fulfillment is something that comes through fulfilling expectations imposed onto oneself from the outside, or even something that comes through expectations imposed onto oneself through one’s own mind based on what one was taught to be of “value” and “worth”.
I see that from this emerges the belief that if I don’t meet the ‘standards’ and ‘expectations’ of the system/parents/the mind I must lack something and thus I must FEEL like I’m not good enough or am not fulfilled or not accomplished.
I commit myself to stop feeling like I’m not good enough or not accomplished, as I realize that such mental state/feeling is not supporting me to expand and express as who I really am and can be.
I commit myself to assist and support myself in exploring what real self-accomplishment and self-fulfillment is/can be in the context of life / in the context of who I am as life, and not in the context of who I have become as a system within a system.
I within this see that self-accomplishment and self-fulfillment is something that I am able to give to myself through/within how I practically Live and Express in my world/reality while I assist and support myself to be and live the best I can be –
‘best’ not in comparison/competition to others, but in relation to my own self/life and my own potential as what I in self-honesty know I can be/become.
“I NEED others to acknowledge my work/contribution otherwise I cannot feel meaningful and important in life.”
--- The implication that is tacitly accepted here is that I NEED to FEEL meaningful and important otherwise I FEEL that I LACK something, and unless OTHERS acknowledge what I do I cannot FEEL meaningful and important –
but do we ever consider living in a way that we ourselves are able to acknowledge and appreciate our own practical-living, our own development processes, our own expression and expansion in self-honesty? No – because we do not even know or understand ourselves; we are so brainwashed through systems of education/parenting – and have a look, such systems are also based in polarity: the polarity of REWARD and PUNISHMENT, which is what creates a human being that is able to be controlled, manipulated and directed like trigger-robots through a simple thing like FEELINGS (and have a look at how advertisement work for instance, or even religions) without even understanding or investigating what feeling-/emotional-responses are and how they are created!
I commit myself to let go of the FEELING that I LACK something, as I see that it does not serve me as life, but only serves to ‘validate’ and ‘justify’ the belief that unless someone/something acknowledge what I do I cannot FEEL meaningful and important.
I commit myself to assist and support myself in letting go of the NEED, want and desire to FEEL meaningful and important.
I see, realize and understand that by thinking that I need others to acknowledge my work/contribution, believing that otherwise I cannot feel meaningful and important in life, I am tacitly implying and accepting that I and my life are not meaningful and important – which is equal to disregarding my own life.
Therefore I commit myself to restore the value of life, starting with myself, and to no longer follow ideas and concepts of ‘value’ as defined of the system that come up in my mind based on comparison / competition / self-interest, as I see and realize that such concepts disregard the value of life and do not support me as life or anyone else as life.
I see, realize and understand that such mental-I-ties is what is being indoctrinated into and as human beings through a polarity system where everything is defined in terms of ‘having’/’not-having’, ‘superiority’/’inferiority’, ‘better’/’worse’, ‘reward’/’punishment’ etc. – with atrocious consequences for life as we can see everywhere around us and throughout all the systems of this world and interpersonal relationships, even within how families deal with their children.
Therefore I commit myself to be part of and contribute to a solution to our existence, a solution for our world and reality – a solution that is based on the equality of life, as that would be best for all; a solution that honors and cares for life, as from such solution would manifest a world/society/system that truly supports life – ALL life equally.
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